Solomon
Master Don Juan
lol @ this thread
a mod please close this baffonery
thanks!!!
a mod please close this baffonery
thanks!!!
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ah, I see. So you're just here to brag?Babnik said:It doesn't. I want to understand the reasons behind such choices. This is just one example but I know of plenty more. I can get even those girls attracted to me (but not all will cheat) but why would a chick not want a DJ as a BF and use a DJ as a boy-toy for sex? I am very successful in everything I do (including a career with an 85K job at age 22 and model face and body looks). Is it because girls know I will dump them if I don't think they are good enough? It is true... I won't be in LTR with worthless girls but shouldn't they at least try?
Because they make the women feel good. Would you date an obese ugly woman who was a millionaire? Most normal men wouldn't.Babnik said:Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?
Not a trolling question. Here in SC it happens all the time.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I totally hear ya. I see HOT women with ugly, dorky, slobby guys, who on top of it, don't have good game(I mean, from what I can see, it appears they have poor game). I see it every weekend in Manhattan. I've posted so many times about this subject.Babnik said:Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?
Not a trolling question. Here in SC it happens all the time.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Me too. It doesn't even make sense.edger said:Not that I take a woman's words at face value, but my aunt(who's attractive by the way) once told me that hot women go for avg./below avg. looking guys, so they don't have to worry about the guy cheating on or leaving them. She claims they are more loyal. Sounds like a hunk of sh*t to me
Not that I agree with it necessarily, but the analogy would be more like saying I won't buy a Ferrari because someone else will be more likely to steal it from me and maybe hurt me in the process.DonJuan11 said:Me too. It doesn't even make sense.
That's like saying I won't buy a Ferrari because then I'll never have to worry about the price gas being too high.
True, but if i have to guess why women go for guys we'd consider losers i'd have to say that these losers are probably those who don't give 2 ****s and a gravy about the whole "scene" and what's going on while trying to keep upI'm in the Mood said:OP is either trippin' or has personal issues.
Man stop worrying about other guys and worry about yourself!!
Babnik said:Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?
Not a trolling question. Here in SC it happens all the time.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yes, but understand that she isn't the only woman out there and I am f*cking far more chicks than that guy ever will in his life. I never said all chicks are like that.TyTe`EyEz said:Let me get this straight. The guy who is fvcking the girl that you want to holler at has zero game, but you - the guy on sosuave whining about it - have it all. Is that about right?
Babnik said:Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.