When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If the man is acting weak and or needy, then it will almost be a GUARANTEE that she will cheat. This is in the sense that she's coming from a place of high attraction. It also doesn't help that social media and society's portrayal of women being "strong and independent," makes the value of women sky rocket thus creating more options/attention from men therefore giving women the option to cheat within a finger tapping distance. All of this attention makes her now weak and needy male suddenly become more and more unattractive... Women are not meant to "spin plates" or be hypergamic. Their bodies aren't even wired to undergo pregnancy more than once or twice whilst men can ejaculate multiple times within a single day. That's just how nature wired us. But the thing is, once she thinks about cheating then all of the above I stated just makes it easier if not tempting. It's true you will have some chances to "redeem" yourself from your weak and or needy behavior especially if she finds you highly attractive but even that has a limit.Arthy said:What are the reasons? Can someone make a list of them?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Did you just compare being pregnant to ejaculating? Smh.Frayzer said:If the man is acting weak and or needy, then it will almost be a GUARANTEE that she will cheat. This is in the sense that she's coming from a place of high attraction. It also doesn't help that social media and society's portrayal of women being "strong and independent," makes the value of women sky rocket thus creating more options/attention from men therefore giving women the option to cheat within a finger tapping distance. All of this attention makes her now weak and needy male suddenly become more and more unattractive... Women are not meant to "spin plates" or be hypergamic. Their bodies aren't even wired to undergo pregnancy more than once or twice whilst men can ejaculate multiple times within a single day. That's just how nature wired us. But the thing is, once she thinks about cheating then all of the above I stated just makes it easier if not tempting. It's true you will have some chances to "redeem" yourself from your weak and or needy behavior especially if she finds you highly attractive but even that has a limit.
With that being said, you need to have your A game on when going into a relationship and sometimes even when dating. A few mistakes can result in her cheating. The only real reason, without the woman having psychological problems, is because the male is acting weak and or needy. Even with all the attention she gets, if she's really attractive, you really need to stand your ground and keep your frame.
Maintaining a relationship is A LOT harder than what people, and society, make it out to be.
Yes. Is there an issue?El Payaso said:Did you just compare being pregnant to ejaculating? Smh.
If you have 30 different buckets with close to the same amount of water, yet some are more clear while others more dark, does it really matter which one you pick?El Payaso said:Why is water wet?
So you're basically saying "why are 30 men holding water, and why are some lighter then others?"Frayzer said:If you have 30 different buckets with close to the same amount of water, yet some are more clear while others more dark, does it really matter which one you pick?
At the end of the day, you're still going to get wet. It doesn't matter why "water is wet." It's the "how" it gets wet is what's more important. How is this relevant to women/my posts? The buckets are men.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Well, wetness is our description of what we feel when we put our hand in water. Saying water is wet is like saying that wood is hard or fire is hot.El Payaso said:Why is water wet?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lol. Whatever you say, youngin.Frayzer said:Yes. Is there an issue?
I was aiming towards the "women aren't wired by nature to be hyerpgramic" route by the way, I'm pretty sure I did say that. Was just an example.
Big Nuts said:Simple: You are lower value than the guy she is fcking.
The only preventative measure is to ensure you always strive to maintain high value. The best way to do this is to choose happiness and fulfillment for yourself at all times...she is secondary...but she will follow.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.