“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why do we always make it seem like these traits are mutually exclusive?

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loving
affectionate
honest
caring

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strong
assertive
independent


Everybody makes it seem like you either have to be the "alpha badboy" who shows no emotion and acts like a douchebag or you have to be the needy, weak, clingy bitchboy


I'm very affectionate and loving towards all the people in my circle but I tolerate zero disrespect and I'm never afraid to stand up and say something if something is wrong. I'm never clingy. If I text somebody once and they don't respond, I wait until however long is necessary. I give people space when they ask for space. Why do we make it seem like it's impossible to feature both traits?
 
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I do agree with your post in this instance. The PUA community has always presented the world as if it's black and white - You're either a full on douchebag @sshole or you're a weak simpering AFC. No in between. Life isn't really like that.

It's like alphas and betas, it's best seen as just being a teaching tool, and not as an example of real life.
 
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bigdave17 said:
loving
affectionate
honest
caring

vs

strong
assertive
independent


Everybody makes it seem like you either have to be the "alpha badboy" who shows no emotion and acts like a douchebag or you have to be the needy, weak, clingy bitchboy


I'm very affectionate and loving towards all the people in my circle but I tolerate zero disrespect and I'm never afraid to stand up and say something if something is wrong. I'm never clingy. If I text somebody once and they don't respond, I wait until however long is necessary. I give people space when they ask for space. Why do we make it seem like it's impossible to feature both traits?
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No one and I do mean no one, is any one thing all the time. We are always a combination of a number of different traits and responses. Anyone who pretends otherwise is lying to themselves and/or anyone else.
 
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Its not black and white. Some of the mob figures where known to be tender and loving to their family and loved ones.
 
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