"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do us MEN Create our own HELL?

Freeman

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Why is it that, more often than not, we create own misery with woman? Many of you who are reading this know what I'm talking about...We pursue the most sublime rather than most conspicuous-we diss the 7 to get with the 9 who has no interest in us...Why?

Ex. from my own life:


there's a chick at my job that would be considered a 8.5 by any guy-who shows more interest in me-as opposed to this other chick who I just recently met who seems mildy interested at best and who is less attractive physically than the other one...what is it? Is it the thrill of hunting after something that presents more of a challenge?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Its basic human nature, why would you want to have a cake and let it sit there, of course you want to eat it too.

With regards to women, why would you want the sh1ttier of the two, of course you want the better one.
 

DJ4Real

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It's the challenge. "Humans want what they can't have easily".
 

Freeman

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Originally posted by MacAvoy
Its basic human nature, why would you want to have a cake and let it sit there, of course you want to eat it too.

With regards to women, why would you want the sh1ttier of the two, of course you want the better one.

You say,"better" define what you mean...in my post I said that the 1st chick is better physically than the other one-so when u say "better", do you mean in terms of prize?
 

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Human beings have beat out a lot of other creatures in terms of dominance, so it's not surprising that we never settle for something medicore.

In terms of mating, your ancestors were aggressive in their competition for the hottest women. If they weren't, they wouldn't have mated, and you wouldn't be here.

It's all based on the simple-but-profound fact that every single one of your male ancestors managed to mate with a fertile woman -- otherwise they wouldn't be your ancestors!

So you have the product of a bunch of genes all of which were at least once successful with an attractive (and therefore fertile) woman.

EDIT: Imagine that you put 100 men and 100 women in a room and the women pick the top 5 men and **** their brains out. All the children belong to those men. Say the children are once again 100 men and 100 women. Again, the women pick the 5 five men and **** their brains out. All the kids are theirs.

Repeat this process a gazillion gillion bazillion times. Yes, there's still gonna be 95 men who don't get laid, but that's only beacuse they are "only" super-duper optimized to get laid, rather than the top 5 who are super-duper-duper optimized.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DjDreamer

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Originally posted by Alphathree
EDIT: Imagine that you put 100 men and 100 women in a room and the women pick the top 5 men and **** their brains out. All the children belong to those men. Say the children are once again 100 men and 100 women. Again, the women pick the 5 five men and **** their brains out. All the kids are theirs.

Repeat this process a gazillion gillion bazillion times. Yes, there's still gonna be 95 men who don't get laid, but that's only beacuse they are "only" super-duper optimized to get laid, rather than the top 5 who are super-duper-duper optimized.
Interesting perspective... so would you say sexualy superior men are the ones who are aggressively pursueed by really hot women? Sort of like rock stars?

The tao of steve is making a whole heap of sense now...
 
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