"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why do us MEN Create our own HELL?

Freeman

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Why is it that, more often than not, we create own misery with woman? Many of you who are reading this know what I'm talking about...We pursue the most sublime rather than most conspicuous-we diss the 7 to get with the 9 who has no interest in us...Why?

Ex. from my own life:


there's a chick at my job that would be considered a 8.5 by any guy-who shows more interest in me-as opposed to this other chick who I just recently met who seems mildy interested at best and who is less attractive physically than the other one...what is it? Is it the thrill of hunting after something that presents more of a challenge?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MacAvoy

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Its basic human nature, why would you want to have a cake and let it sit there, of course you want to eat it too.

With regards to women, why would you want the sh1ttier of the two, of course you want the better one.
 

DJ4Real

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It's the challenge. "Humans want what they can't have easily".
 

Freeman

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Originally posted by MacAvoy
Its basic human nature, why would you want to have a cake and let it sit there, of course you want to eat it too.

With regards to women, why would you want the sh1ttier of the two, of course you want the better one.

You say,"better" define what you mean...in my post I said that the 1st chick is better physically than the other one-so when u say "better", do you mean in terms of prize?
 

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Human beings have beat out a lot of other creatures in terms of dominance, so it's not surprising that we never settle for something medicore.

In terms of mating, your ancestors were aggressive in their competition for the hottest women. If they weren't, they wouldn't have mated, and you wouldn't be here.

It's all based on the simple-but-profound fact that every single one of your male ancestors managed to mate with a fertile woman -- otherwise they wouldn't be your ancestors!

So you have the product of a bunch of genes all of which were at least once successful with an attractive (and therefore fertile) woman.

EDIT: Imagine that you put 100 men and 100 women in a room and the women pick the top 5 men and **** their brains out. All the children belong to those men. Say the children are once again 100 men and 100 women. Again, the women pick the 5 five men and **** their brains out. All the kids are theirs.

Repeat this process a gazillion gillion bazillion times. Yes, there's still gonna be 95 men who don't get laid, but that's only beacuse they are "only" super-duper optimized to get laid, rather than the top 5 who are super-duper-duper optimized.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DjDreamer

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Originally posted by Alphathree
EDIT: Imagine that you put 100 men and 100 women in a room and the women pick the top 5 men and **** their brains out. All the children belong to those men. Say the children are once again 100 men and 100 women. Again, the women pick the 5 five men and **** their brains out. All the kids are theirs.

Repeat this process a gazillion gillion bazillion times. Yes, there's still gonna be 95 men who don't get laid, but that's only beacuse they are "only" super-duper optimized to get laid, rather than the top 5 who are super-duper-duper optimized.
Interesting perspective... so would you say sexualy superior men are the ones who are aggressively pursueed by really hot women? Sort of like rock stars?

The tao of steve is making a whole heap of sense now...
 
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