"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do us MEN Create our own HELL?

Freeman

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Why is it that, more often than not, we create own misery with woman? Many of you who are reading this know what I'm talking about...We pursue the most sublime rather than most conspicuous-we diss the 7 to get with the 9 who has no interest in us...Why?

Ex. from my own life:


there's a chick at my job that would be considered a 8.5 by any guy-who shows more interest in me-as opposed to this other chick who I just recently met who seems mildy interested at best and who is less attractive physically than the other one...what is it? Is it the thrill of hunting after something that presents more of a challenge?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Its basic human nature, why would you want to have a cake and let it sit there, of course you want to eat it too.

With regards to women, why would you want the sh1ttier of the two, of course you want the better one.
 

DJ4Real

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It's the challenge. "Humans want what they can't have easily".
 

Freeman

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Originally posted by MacAvoy
Its basic human nature, why would you want to have a cake and let it sit there, of course you want to eat it too.

With regards to women, why would you want the sh1ttier of the two, of course you want the better one.

You say,"better" define what you mean...in my post I said that the 1st chick is better physically than the other one-so when u say "better", do you mean in terms of prize?
 

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Human beings have beat out a lot of other creatures in terms of dominance, so it's not surprising that we never settle for something medicore.

In terms of mating, your ancestors were aggressive in their competition for the hottest women. If they weren't, they wouldn't have mated, and you wouldn't be here.

It's all based on the simple-but-profound fact that every single one of your male ancestors managed to mate with a fertile woman -- otherwise they wouldn't be your ancestors!

So you have the product of a bunch of genes all of which were at least once successful with an attractive (and therefore fertile) woman.

EDIT: Imagine that you put 100 men and 100 women in a room and the women pick the top 5 men and **** their brains out. All the children belong to those men. Say the children are once again 100 men and 100 women. Again, the women pick the 5 five men and **** their brains out. All the kids are theirs.

Repeat this process a gazillion gillion bazillion times. Yes, there's still gonna be 95 men who don't get laid, but that's only beacuse they are "only" super-duper optimized to get laid, rather than the top 5 who are super-duper-duper optimized.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DjDreamer

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Originally posted by Alphathree
EDIT: Imagine that you put 100 men and 100 women in a room and the women pick the top 5 men and **** their brains out. All the children belong to those men. Say the children are once again 100 men and 100 women. Again, the women pick the 5 five men and **** their brains out. All the kids are theirs.

Repeat this process a gazillion gillion bazillion times. Yes, there's still gonna be 95 men who don't get laid, but that's only beacuse they are "only" super-duper optimized to get laid, rather than the top 5 who are super-duper-duper optimized.
Interesting perspective... so would you say sexualy superior men are the ones who are aggressively pursueed by really hot women? Sort of like rock stars?

The tao of steve is making a whole heap of sense now...
 
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