I've had this happen a few times. I leave a girl a message, she calls me back and I'm not around my phone. On the message they will go into detail about where they were, the reason they weren't home. Why is this?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why Do They?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
THey either ignored your phone call and are making an excuse, or they want you to know there was a very legitimate reason why they couldn't talk to you. (high interest)
I don't think it necessarily indicates high interest versus low interest, it'd depend on the situation
I don't think it necessarily indicates high interest versus low interest, it'd depend on the situation
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Chicks just like to talk and talk and talk.
The only way to get them to shut up is to stick your **** in their mouths.
Sorry... Just trying to fit in with the DJs. HA HA HA
The only way to get them to shut up is to stick your **** in their mouths.
Sorry... Just trying to fit in with the DJs. HA HA HA
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
HEAVENLY FATHER
New Member
Classic case of Over-analyzation
People do things for a lot of reasons.
It is a waste of valuable time and energy to try to figure out their motives, because no two people will have the same modus operandi... ya dig?
People do things for a lot of reasons.
It is a waste of valuable time and energy to try to figure out their motives, because no two people will have the same modus operandi... ya dig?