I've had this happen a few times. I leave a girl a message, she calls me back and I'm not around my phone. On the message they will go into detail about where they were, the reason they weren't home. Why is this?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Why Do They?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
THey either ignored your phone call and are making an excuse, or they want you to know there was a very legitimate reason why they couldn't talk to you. (high interest)
I don't think it necessarily indicates high interest versus low interest, it'd depend on the situation
I don't think it necessarily indicates high interest versus low interest, it'd depend on the situation
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Chicks just like to talk and talk and talk.
The only way to get them to shut up is to stick your **** in their mouths.
Sorry... Just trying to fit in with the DJs. HA HA HA
The only way to get them to shut up is to stick your **** in their mouths.
Sorry... Just trying to fit in with the DJs. HA HA HA
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HEAVENLY FATHER
New Member
Classic case of Over-analyzation
People do things for a lot of reasons.
It is a waste of valuable time and energy to try to figure out their motives, because no two people will have the same modus operandi... ya dig?
People do things for a lot of reasons.
It is a waste of valuable time and energy to try to figure out their motives, because no two people will have the same modus operandi... ya dig?