I've had this happen a few times. I leave a girl a message, she calls me back and I'm not around my phone. On the message they will go into detail about where they were, the reason they weren't home. Why is this?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why Do They?
- Thread starter Disco
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
THey either ignored your phone call and are making an excuse, or they want you to know there was a very legitimate reason why they couldn't talk to you. (high interest)
I don't think it necessarily indicates high interest versus low interest, it'd depend on the situation
I don't think it necessarily indicates high interest versus low interest, it'd depend on the situation
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Chicks just like to talk and talk and talk.
The only way to get them to shut up is to stick your **** in their mouths.
Sorry... Just trying to fit in with the DJs. HA HA HA
The only way to get them to shut up is to stick your **** in their mouths.
Sorry... Just trying to fit in with the DJs. HA HA HA
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
HEAVENLY FATHER
New Member
Classic case of Over-analyzation
People do things for a lot of reasons.
It is a waste of valuable time and energy to try to figure out their motives, because no two people will have the same modus operandi... ya dig?
People do things for a lot of reasons.
It is a waste of valuable time and energy to try to figure out their motives, because no two people will have the same modus operandi... ya dig?