Why do they do it

[toasttopper1879]

I once had oneitis for a girl, so I gotaway as best I could.We live close by so pf course I would bump into her every now and then,but I managed to keep the meetings short & civil.She may or may not of knew how much I liked her.I never told her or anyone else.
About 6 months has passed now & I've moved on.However I'm out in a local fun bar with friends and riight out the blue appears this very girl.Theres a few of us blokes but she dives on me for a huge hug.I decided to be flirty,hugged back,told her I had nt recognised her from behind as I thought she'd gained a few pounds (she's very slim) nipped her bum and moved her on.
I found another girl to dance with but I was interupted,dragged away to dance with first girl and she pointed out she was far slimmer than the other girl I'd gone to dance with.
Now I know this girl has no interest in me whatsoever and I dare say she was looking for a ego boost.What I dont understand is why me.Theres other blokes that are my mates that she could flirt with for a ego boost.I cant understand why she needs this reassurance from me.Any ideas.
Cheers.

 

[G-Man UK]

Sounds like a AW to me m8, steer clear it ain't worth it.

Respect

G-man

 

[toasttopper1879]

I know she's a attention seeker.I dont know why she requires the attention from me.Thats my concern

 

[The Juan and only]

Originally posted by toasttopper1879
I know she's a attention seeker.I dont know why she requires the attention from me.Thats my concern

I don't think you should be concerned. If you know she's an AW then forget her. Don't try too hard analyse the female mind and why they do what they do..

...maybe she felt like an ego boost you were chosen at random/ she finds you slightly more attractive than the other guys that were there at the time

"She may or may not of knew how much I liked her"

....girls like to know how a guy feels about them; maybe she just wanted to confirm that she could have you any time she wanted - again its just another ego boost.

In the end it doesn't really matter...unless she continuously does it..but from your post in only seems to be a single event. maybe she was just overly drunk that night

 

[Tazman]

Do you want us to tell you that you were wrong about her and she DOES like you?

 

[The Juan and only]

yep, sounds like she's totally in love with you. I suggest you propose marriage before you break her heart.

 

[toasttopper1879]

Cheers boys. Like I said I've moved on and this one and I have no desire to return.But if you think proposing marriage might get rid of her then I'll give it a try.