"What would you do if you were cheated on?" Like is it me or is the girl testing my baundaries to see what sh1t I am willing to accept(like her favking around) or what do you guys think? Like it feels like this is some red flag that I am not registering.
Should I just tell her, "I dont take well to that" or something?
I've never been asked this. A girl that wants to make a good impression and wants to keep you would never ask this. It's a sign that she's already way too comfortable.
I would ignore the question and change the subject to keep things light hearted. If she insists then I'd give her one more chance to backtrack with a question before disengaging and being more passive in conversation. If a woman wants to push me away I encourage her. I casually dare her to be anything but sweet and follow my lead. It saves me lots of time.
"That's an interesting question. What made you think of it?"
This kind of response flips the script and puts her on the spot. She needs to answer very carefully not to lose points in my book. I keep the tone very casual to encourage she answer genuinely.
Hold her accountable. If she doesn't backtrack or make the conversation more enjoyable then I'm still casual but I'll start thinking about ejecting.
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@Glassguy 's point I'm speaking from the context of a date. The only time women can get away with asking this kind of stuff is right after I've fuucked their brains out. And even then I take note.