"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why Do Some Women Talk Like They're 12?

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I just don't get this phenomenon. I see it every now and then, and it kind of bugs me because it sounds sort of perverted. I mean, if you close your eyes you think you're talking to a 12 or 13 year old girl. They don't sound like women, they sound like little kids. I don't see it a lot, but some times I see an attractive woman, walk over, and then she starts talking like that, it's a total turn-off. Well, not immediately, but it's just something I always wondered about. I wonder if it's similar to mental-retardation, but instead a kind of vocal retardation?

I'd like to see what you guys think. Couldn't exactly search for it on Google, I tried.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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^ change 'mommy' with 'daddy', and slap out your d!ck.


Should work!
 

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The only place I ever saw this was with church girls.

These aren't church girls by any chance are they?
 

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just higher voices. like you get dudes with higher voices or really deep voices, there is also variation amongst females
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Having a woman act or talk like a little girl around is a good thing, and they probably want you. sounds stupid, but they all just want their daddy
 

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i actually read this thread last night but had no idea wtf it was talking about so I didn't respond

I still don't understand how you guys are able to the op's mind so well.
 

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In my experience, they're trying to be cute.
 

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I think they are trying to be cute too, but its annoying as f.uck and and a huge turnoff in my oppinion.
 

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I get this too. I had a 26 yr old chick call me and leave a message one time, and i wasn't sure who it was because she didn't say who she was. I thought it was a 16 yr old girl on the phone, but come to find out, she was 26.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Its a big sign that she was sexually abused as a kid. I used to listen to Love Line when Adam Corrola was still on it and they'd call girls out immediately if she sounded like a little girl and they were never wrong.
 

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Ignore it and move on. Focus on what you like rather than wasting time posting on things that "bother" you.
 

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The voice wouldnt really bother me..

If she was fit and good looking with a decent personality, that would be the last thing on my mind..

Mindtrust
 

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Geeze, op, I think you should stop dating women that have adams apple's. Then these other women wouldn't seem to have such high voices.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Man, it's a lot better than those hot chicks that open their mouth and have a Grizzly Adams voice...
 

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Hello there. New here. I've been reading a while. I think it's they're business how they want to sound like. On the other hand, it's up to you to qualify them. Lots of C&F comments can be made out of that subject too.
 
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