"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why Do Some Women Talk Like They're 12?

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I just don't get this phenomenon. I see it every now and then, and it kind of bugs me because it sounds sort of perverted. I mean, if you close your eyes you think you're talking to a 12 or 13 year old girl. They don't sound like women, they sound like little kids. I don't see it a lot, but some times I see an attractive woman, walk over, and then she starts talking like that, it's a total turn-off. Well, not immediately, but it's just something I always wondered about. I wonder if it's similar to mental-retardation, but instead a kind of vocal retardation?

I'd like to see what you guys think. Couldn't exactly search for it on Google, I tried.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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^ change 'mommy' with 'daddy', and slap out your d!ck.


Should work!
 

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The only place I ever saw this was with church girls.

These aren't church girls by any chance are they?
 

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just higher voices. like you get dudes with higher voices or really deep voices, there is also variation amongst females
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Having a woman act or talk like a little girl around is a good thing, and they probably want you. sounds stupid, but they all just want their daddy
 

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i actually read this thread last night but had no idea wtf it was talking about so I didn't respond

I still don't understand how you guys are able to the op's mind so well.
 

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In my experience, they're trying to be cute.
 

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I think they are trying to be cute too, but its annoying as f.uck and and a huge turnoff in my oppinion.
 

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I get this too. I had a 26 yr old chick call me and leave a message one time, and i wasn't sure who it was because she didn't say who she was. I thought it was a 16 yr old girl on the phone, but come to find out, she was 26.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Its a big sign that she was sexually abused as a kid. I used to listen to Love Line when Adam Corrola was still on it and they'd call girls out immediately if she sounded like a little girl and they were never wrong.
 

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Ignore it and move on. Focus on what you like rather than wasting time posting on things that "bother" you.
 

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The voice wouldnt really bother me..

If she was fit and good looking with a decent personality, that would be the last thing on my mind..

Mindtrust
 

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Geeze, op, I think you should stop dating women that have adams apple's. Then these other women wouldn't seem to have such high voices.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Man, it's a lot better than those hot chicks that open their mouth and have a Grizzly Adams voice...
 

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Hello there. New here. I've been reading a while. I think it's they're business how they want to sound like. On the other hand, it's up to you to qualify them. Lots of C&F comments can be made out of that subject too.
 
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