"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why Do Some Women Talk Like They're 12?

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I just don't get this phenomenon. I see it every now and then, and it kind of bugs me because it sounds sort of perverted. I mean, if you close your eyes you think you're talking to a 12 or 13 year old girl. They don't sound like women, they sound like little kids. I don't see it a lot, but some times I see an attractive woman, walk over, and then she starts talking like that, it's a total turn-off. Well, not immediately, but it's just something I always wondered about. I wonder if it's similar to mental-retardation, but instead a kind of vocal retardation?

I'd like to see what you guys think. Couldn't exactly search for it on Google, I tried.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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^ change 'mommy' with 'daddy', and slap out your d!ck.


Should work!
 

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The only place I ever saw this was with church girls.

These aren't church girls by any chance are they?
 

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just higher voices. like you get dudes with higher voices or really deep voices, there is also variation amongst females
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Having a woman act or talk like a little girl around is a good thing, and they probably want you. sounds stupid, but they all just want their daddy
 

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i actually read this thread last night but had no idea wtf it was talking about so I didn't respond

I still don't understand how you guys are able to the op's mind so well.
 

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In my experience, they're trying to be cute.
 

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I think they are trying to be cute too, but its annoying as f.uck and and a huge turnoff in my oppinion.
 

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I get this too. I had a 26 yr old chick call me and leave a message one time, and i wasn't sure who it was because she didn't say who she was. I thought it was a 16 yr old girl on the phone, but come to find out, she was 26.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Its a big sign that she was sexually abused as a kid. I used to listen to Love Line when Adam Corrola was still on it and they'd call girls out immediately if she sounded like a little girl and they were never wrong.
 

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Ignore it and move on. Focus on what you like rather than wasting time posting on things that "bother" you.
 

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The voice wouldnt really bother me..

If she was fit and good looking with a decent personality, that would be the last thing on my mind..

Mindtrust
 

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Geeze, op, I think you should stop dating women that have adams apple's. Then these other women wouldn't seem to have such high voices.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Man, it's a lot better than those hot chicks that open their mouth and have a Grizzly Adams voice...
 

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Hello there. New here. I've been reading a while. I think it's they're business how they want to sound like. On the other hand, it's up to you to qualify them. Lots of C&F comments can be made out of that subject too.
 
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