"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do some guys look great in boring clothes?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cheeks

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I don't know what planet you're from, but "hubby" clothing is more along the lines of ill-fitting lightwash jeans, white New Balance sneakers, and some retarded graphic t-shirt. The guy in your pictures is simply dressed like a respectable man who doesn't try to call attention to himself by dressing like a high school kid.
 

EvilSpirit22

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He's slim and looks fit. Because he's slim his features are more prominent and clear than most of us fat or not so slim people. Sharp jawline and cheekbones make him a little more good looking and healthy.
 

Huffman

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No question, he dresses well. I was just thinking, actually my everyday clothes aren't too different. Still I think that if the pullover in the 1st picture isn't 100% form fitting, then on me it would look like sh!t.

When I wear clothes like that, I think that just a little change in cut transforms me from a strong, good looking guy to a very average office-working pushover. Maybe it's the face.

Wow, I'm sure *****ing a lot. Anyway, no big problem, I do have clothes that fit well and everything is good. Was just wondering.
 

Moroder

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Guys. This dude has an obvious lack of color vision and looks like he's bored to death. Cut out the happy woman by his side or photoshop a HB0 next to him and you'll see what I'm talking about.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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El Payaso

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His clothes look okay to me.
 

In2theGame

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He looks like an ordinary guy and dresses the way it suits him. Everyone has their own style that makes them feel comfortable. One of my very best friends likes wearing shoes and dress pants and shirts. Im the opposite, I prefer a fitted t shirt that fits nicely with my muscular look, along with nice jeans and shoes/boots.
 

Dgwizdal

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Gay.

However I do look sharp in a fitted v-neck, Banana shorts, and some Nikes.
 

KingBeef

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Guy looks decent (nothing great but pretty good) dresses ok BUT....HE LOOKS PRETTY LEAN (SQUARE JAW LINE AND PROBABLY LOW BODYFAT) and he's not even wearing "fitted" clothes that would make him actually look even better because it would accentuate his body, just my opinion...
 

mangotot

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He looks great because he is an attractive guy. An average looking guy just would not look good in that outfit.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GS750

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I like his girlfriend. I didn't even look at him or his clothes.
 

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Photoshop a hb1 and he looks frumpy.

The chick adds points cuz it makes you think hes cool inside for having hbs hugging him. He dresses somewhat dull, but less is more sometimes.

Plus its just clothes, unless hes super ripped and looks sporty, its just a manequin dressed up at the mall.
 

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He looks better in 2 & 3, and coincidentally those are the two pictures where he's projecting some attitude toward the camera.
 

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I don't think the guy looks particularly good, but...


I have found that dressing well has a lot more to do with just finding the right colours and the right fit. Girls give me way more compliments (and I find I look better) in a nice-fitting charcoal t-shirt than some crazy "cool" stuff.
 
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