"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do some guys look great in boring clothes?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cheeks

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I don't know what planet you're from, but "hubby" clothing is more along the lines of ill-fitting lightwash jeans, white New Balance sneakers, and some retarded graphic t-shirt. The guy in your pictures is simply dressed like a respectable man who doesn't try to call attention to himself by dressing like a high school kid.
 

EvilSpirit22

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He's slim and looks fit. Because he's slim his features are more prominent and clear than most of us fat or not so slim people. Sharp jawline and cheekbones make him a little more good looking and healthy.
 

Huffman

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No question, he dresses well. I was just thinking, actually my everyday clothes aren't too different. Still I think that if the pullover in the 1st picture isn't 100% form fitting, then on me it would look like sh!t.

When I wear clothes like that, I think that just a little change in cut transforms me from a strong, good looking guy to a very average office-working pushover. Maybe it's the face.

Wow, I'm sure *****ing a lot. Anyway, no big problem, I do have clothes that fit well and everything is good. Was just wondering.
 

Moroder

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Guys. This dude has an obvious lack of color vision and looks like he's bored to death. Cut out the happy woman by his side or photoshop a HB0 next to him and you'll see what I'm talking about.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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El Payaso

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His clothes look okay to me.
 

In2theGame

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He looks like an ordinary guy and dresses the way it suits him. Everyone has their own style that makes them feel comfortable. One of my very best friends likes wearing shoes and dress pants and shirts. Im the opposite, I prefer a fitted t shirt that fits nicely with my muscular look, along with nice jeans and shoes/boots.
 

Dgwizdal

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Gay.

However I do look sharp in a fitted v-neck, Banana shorts, and some Nikes.
 

KingBeef

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Guy looks decent (nothing great but pretty good) dresses ok BUT....HE LOOKS PRETTY LEAN (SQUARE JAW LINE AND PROBABLY LOW BODYFAT) and he's not even wearing "fitted" clothes that would make him actually look even better because it would accentuate his body, just my opinion...
 

mangotot

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He looks great because he is an attractive guy. An average looking guy just would not look good in that outfit.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GS750

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I like his girlfriend. I didn't even look at him or his clothes.
 

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Photoshop a hb1 and he looks frumpy.

The chick adds points cuz it makes you think hes cool inside for having hbs hugging him. He dresses somewhat dull, but less is more sometimes.

Plus its just clothes, unless hes super ripped and looks sporty, its just a manequin dressed up at the mall.
 

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He looks better in 2 & 3, and coincidentally those are the two pictures where he's projecting some attitude toward the camera.
 

handle

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I don't think the guy looks particularly good, but...


I have found that dressing well has a lot more to do with just finding the right colours and the right fit. Girls give me way more compliments (and I find I look better) in a nice-fitting charcoal t-shirt than some crazy "cool" stuff.
 
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