nismo-4
Moderator
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2005
- Messages
- 4,438
- Reaction score
- 1,142
Da ugly or fatty will c**kblock you if you alienate her. That same chick don't give a f**k cuz she's used to turning people off with her looks. HBs are insecure.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
UGLY MANAGER= worst nightmareDonGorgon said:... Its like the fat girl gets to chose who the pretty ones f , date and marry...
Yeh ive seen it and it made me angry...LOLCr1msonKing said:I've watched a few episodes of Keys to the VIP on youtube(its about two dudes who face each other in a big club atmosphere and they try to fulfill the goals the show presents, usually to get a number, but sometimes body shots off of girls, isolate them, get them to kiss, by you a drink etc)
Its a good show, and one of the things you can actually see live, is when some of the guys ask the girl for the number, and he's got his back on the group, you can see the mother hen/protector/****block give little signals to the girl being asked about her phone number.
One of them was a side to side head movement, another one was a tongue out, etc.
Just a good show to watch if you like to sarge, I've learned a few things from the website.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.