nismo-4
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Da ugly or fatty will c**kblock you if you alienate her. That same chick don't give a f**k cuz she's used to turning people off with her looks. HBs are insecure.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
UGLY MANAGER= worst nightmareDonGorgon said:... Its like the fat girl gets to chose who the pretty ones f , date and marry...
Yeh ive seen it and it made me angry...LOLCr1msonKing said:I've watched a few episodes of Keys to the VIP on youtube(its about two dudes who face each other in a big club atmosphere and they try to fulfill the goals the show presents, usually to get a number, but sometimes body shots off of girls, isolate them, get them to kiss, by you a drink etc)
Its a good show, and one of the things you can actually see live, is when some of the guys ask the girl for the number, and he's got his back on the group, you can see the mother hen/protector/****block give little signals to the girl being asked about her phone number.
One of them was a side to side head movement, another one was a tongue out, etc.
Just a good show to watch if you like to sarge, I've learned a few things from the website.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.