"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do older women pursue me aggressively?

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and im not talking about just ugly ones or single moms or anything like that...I've had some very cute women in their mid 30s who had good jobs, nice bodies, no kids, smart, classy, etc... who pursued me aggressively. I have a female customer of mine who is a very sexy 35 year old right now who is constantly flirting with me

Is this just a question of them being desperate? why doesn't the 25 year old version of that approach me same way? Do they just have way more options so I'm not as impressive??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you love attention more than you love fuhking? Most women are like that.

I think you just admitted the root of all of your problems.
 
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bigdave17 said:
and im not talking about just ugly ones or single moms or anything like that...I've had some very cute women in their mid 30s who had good jobs, nice bodies, no kids, smart, classy, etc... who pursued me aggressively. I have a female customer of mine who is a very sexy 35 year old right now who is constantly flirting with me

Is this just a question of them being desperate? why doesn't the 25 year old version of that approach me same way? Do they just have way more options so I'm not as impressive??
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Because how you present yourself your more attractive to that . The 35 years old can even be built better .

You have a responsible look about yourself. The 25 years old expects fashions and mannerisms of a 25 years old. So less responsible and more trendy.

Btw life is weird . If your always looking at and attracted to one type, the other type will be attracted to you.

Let some of the more attractive ones who are into you give you sex.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nice bodies, classy not sure what else you need. Forget about gf for now. You don't have enough ladies yet. It ain't a lady to you unless she spread her legs.
 
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You like the attention more than the result...you're very feminine and that explains why you can't get any women coming your way.
 
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lizardking82 said:
You like the attention more than the result...you're very feminine and that explains why you can't get any women coming your way.
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if any of them were dateable (mid 20s and Spanish/Middle Eastern/Italian/etc...), I would date them instantly
 
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all older women are kind of desperated even when they are not and even when they are not looking for relationship (either they lie, or its true, but they still want attention from you)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sosousage said:
all older women are kind of desperated even when they are not and even when they are not looking for relationship (either they lie, or its true, but they still want attention from you)
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Be calm with your attention . Make an opportunity for sex to happen. That's how they should receive your attention.
 
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