"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why do older women pursue me aggressively?

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and im not talking about just ugly ones or single moms or anything like that...I've had some very cute women in their mid 30s who had good jobs, nice bodies, no kids, smart, classy, etc... who pursued me aggressively. I have a female customer of mine who is a very sexy 35 year old right now who is constantly flirting with me

Is this just a question of them being desperate? why doesn't the 25 year old version of that approach me same way? Do they just have way more options so I'm not as impressive??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Do you love attention more than you love fuhking? Most women are like that.

I think you just admitted the root of all of your problems.
 

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and im not talking about just ugly ones or single moms or anything like that...I've had some very cute women in their mid 30s who had good jobs, nice bodies, no kids, smart, classy, etc... who pursued me aggressively. I have a female customer of mine who is a very sexy 35 year old right now who is constantly flirting with me

Is this just a question of them being desperate? why doesn't the 25 year old version of that approach me same way? Do they just have way more options so I'm not as impressive??
Because how you present yourself your more attractive to that . The 35 years old can even be built better .

You have a responsible look about yourself. The 25 years old expects fashions and mannerisms of a 25 years old. So less responsible and more trendy.

Btw life is weird . If your always looking at and attracted to one type, the other type will be attracted to you.

Let some of the more attractive ones who are into you give you sex.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nice bodies, classy not sure what else you need. Forget about gf for now. You don't have enough ladies yet. It ain't a lady to you unless she spread her legs.
 

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You like the attention more than the result...you're very feminine and that explains why you can't get any women coming your way.
 

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You like the attention more than the result...you're very feminine and that explains why you can't get any women coming your way.
if any of them were dateable (mid 20s and Spanish/Middle Eastern/Italian/etc...), I would date them instantly
 

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all older women are kind of desperated even when they are not and even when they are not looking for relationship (either they lie, or its true, but they still want attention from you)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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all older women are kind of desperated even when they are not and even when they are not looking for relationship (either they lie, or its true, but they still want attention from you)
Be calm with your attention . Make an opportunity for sex to happen. That's how they should receive your attention.
 
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