Its a lot easier for me. I was an out of shape chump with 0 social skills in college and 3 years out I'm still not where I need to be but I'm so much better. Still kick myself sometimes for not getting my **** together a few years earlier because i missed out on a LOOOOOOTRobert28 said:
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Why do men have to be near perfect to land women here in the states
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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The dating game here is strongly resembles capitalism run amok. Plus, you have to be in tight cliques to meet women here anyway. Being proper black guy does not help my chances here either.
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Burroughs said:
Burroughs, that documentary is stupefying. I can't believe what that cünt did to him. Mind numbing!
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Burroughs said:
It cracks me up because I saw this topic (and the video linked in it) back when you first started it. Now every time I see Burroughs referring or linking to a topic, about 9 times out of 10 it's this one. It's like an advertisement! Actually, the funny part is I predict it every time. The topic is a good one though and definitely worth reading if you haven't. And the video is worth watching. If you don't read the topic or watch the video, you could end up like THIS GUY!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195329
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Accidentally erased my reply. Sorry/
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
While this may be true, it does no good to stick with the status quo, make up excuses, and complain about it. It's like saying NG's finish last - while remaining an NG, and complaining about it. If you don't like it, if it's not working, if you're not getting the results you desire - you gotta do something about it. Anything you want in life requires effort and some change. You may not like it, it may not seem fair, it might not be how you wanted or envisioned things to be, but that's how it is. Gotta deal and adapt.Ringleader41 said:
MikeOck
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They don't, not even close. Stop thinking so negatively.Ringleader41 said:
“Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.”
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