Its a lot easier for me. I was an out of shape chump with 0 social skills in college and 3 years out I'm still not where I need to be but I'm so much better. Still kick myself sometimes for not getting my **** together a few years earlier because i missed out on a LOOOOOOTRobert28 said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Why do men have to be near perfect to land women here in the states
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The dating game here is strongly resembles capitalism run amok. Plus, you have to be in tight cliques to meet women here anyway. Being proper black guy does not help my chances here either.
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Burroughs, that documentary is stupefying. I can't believe what that cünt did to him. Mind numbing!
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Burroughs said:
It cracks me up because I saw this topic (and the video linked in it) back when you first started it. Now every time I see Burroughs referring or linking to a topic, about 9 times out of 10 it's this one. It's like an advertisement! Actually, the funny part is I predict it every time. The topic is a good one though and definitely worth reading if you haven't. And the video is worth watching. If you don't read the topic or watch the video, you could end up like THIS GUY!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195329
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Accidentally erased my reply. Sorry/
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
While this may be true, it does no good to stick with the status quo, make up excuses, and complain about it. It's like saying NG's finish last - while remaining an NG, and complaining about it. If you don't like it, if it's not working, if you're not getting the results you desire - you gotta do something about it. Anything you want in life requires effort and some change. You may not like it, it may not seem fair, it might not be how you wanted or envisioned things to be, but that's how it is. Gotta deal and adapt.Ringleader41 said:
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They don't, not even close. Stop thinking so negatively.Ringleader41 said:
“Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.”
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