Its a lot easier for me. I was an out of shape chump with 0 social skills in college and 3 years out I'm still not where I need to be but I'm so much better. Still kick myself sometimes for not getting my **** together a few years earlier because i missed out on a LOOOOOOTRobert28 said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why do men have to be near perfect to land women here in the states
- Thread starter Ringleader41
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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The dating game here is strongly resembles capitalism run amok. Plus, you have to be in tight cliques to meet women here anyway. Being proper black guy does not help my chances here either.
VladPatton
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Burroughs said:
Burroughs, that documentary is stupefying. I can't believe what that cünt did to him. Mind numbing!
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Burroughs said:
It cracks me up because I saw this topic (and the video linked in it) back when you first started it. Now every time I see Burroughs referring or linking to a topic, about 9 times out of 10 it's this one. It's like an advertisement! Actually, the funny part is I predict it every time. The topic is a good one though and definitely worth reading if you haven't. And the video is worth watching. If you don't read the topic or watch the video, you could end up like THIS GUY!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195329
Aristippus
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Accidentally erased my reply. Sorry/
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
While this may be true, it does no good to stick with the status quo, make up excuses, and complain about it. It's like saying NG's finish last - while remaining an NG, and complaining about it. If you don't like it, if it's not working, if you're not getting the results you desire - you gotta do something about it. Anything you want in life requires effort and some change. You may not like it, it may not seem fair, it might not be how you wanted or envisioned things to be, but that's how it is. Gotta deal and adapt.Ringleader41 said:
MikeOck
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They don't, not even close. Stop thinking so negatively.Ringleader41 said:
“Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.”
-Henry Ford