Its a lot easier for me. I was an out of shape chump with 0 social skills in college and 3 years out I'm still not where I need to be but I'm so much better. Still kick myself sometimes for not getting my **** together a few years earlier because i missed out on a LOOOOOOTRobert28 said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Why do men have to be near perfect to land women here in the states
- Thread starter Ringleader41
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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The dating game here is strongly resembles capitalism run amok. Plus, you have to be in tight cliques to meet women here anyway. Being proper black guy does not help my chances here either.
VladPatton
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Burroughs said:
Burroughs, that documentary is stupefying. I can't believe what that cünt did to him. Mind numbing!
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Burroughs said:
It cracks me up because I saw this topic (and the video linked in it) back when you first started it. Now every time I see Burroughs referring or linking to a topic, about 9 times out of 10 it's this one. It's like an advertisement! Actually, the funny part is I predict it every time. The topic is a good one though and definitely worth reading if you haven't. And the video is worth watching. If you don't read the topic or watch the video, you could end up like THIS GUY!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195329
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Accidentally erased my reply. Sorry/
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
While this may be true, it does no good to stick with the status quo, make up excuses, and complain about it. It's like saying NG's finish last - while remaining an NG, and complaining about it. If you don't like it, if it's not working, if you're not getting the results you desire - you gotta do something about it. Anything you want in life requires effort and some change. You may not like it, it may not seem fair, it might not be how you wanted or envisioned things to be, but that's how it is. Gotta deal and adapt.Ringleader41 said:
MikeOck
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They don't, not even close. Stop thinking so negatively.Ringleader41 said:
“Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.”
-Henry Ford