Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why do I feel sooo good?

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FunkyMillion

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I don't know guys but for some unknown reason... I feel very good.

here is the story..... about a year and a half ago I decided to make a change in my life. First I lost about 50-60 pounds, then I decided to clear my mind and clear any one-itis in my head so I asked these two girls out (that happens to be friends) because I liked them for about a year but never had some balls to say something; and both of them rejected me.

But now I'm trimmed, I got buffed up and everyone I know notices it. I converted all those anger into a motivation to get into the gym and pump some iron.

For some reason I just feel good because I change a lot and girls who rejected me didn't change, they either got fat or got ugly in my book. Now I feel confident about myself and it seems like my environment around me is more at ease than before.

Next step.... learning how to approach because rejection is pretty much nothing to me, I just don't care about it anymore.

it's all about baby steps....

-Funk
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dapper Swindler

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I think you answered your own question
 
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Hollowpoint

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That's excellent!

Keep improving yourself! I love the positivity!
 
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Short term pain... long term pleasure! :D
 
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That always feels good...when you meet back up with those girls who rejected you and they got all fat and ugly and have like, 2 kids at home and a deadbeat ex-husband who doesn't pay his child-support on time. And you're just STARTING to hit the prime of your life. :)

Anyway...don't get too immersed in that...keep focusing on yourself.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yeah don't gloat. Just keep on trying to improve yourself and try to help others...even those that tried to knock you down before, coz at the end of the day you don't want to make the mistake that they made towards you.
 
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