"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pimpology101

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I dated this girl for a few months and she was crazy about me. Ever since we dated shes never denied me. She gave me head when I wanted etc. Everything was good, but all of the sudden she says its weird to do stuff. She wants to slow down. I said thats fine but she just stopped, and denied me twice when i wanted a bj on 2 different occations. I broke up with her cause I wasnt happy anymore with the attitude she was giving me. Now shes upset (crying) and told me to stop hurting her.... was this the right move djs??? If so, how long should I give her before i try to hit it up again?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JSH

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Sounds a bit crazy, maybe she was so desperate to get with you she tried everything, becomming an Female version of an AFC and then realised that you just want her cos what she does to you. Life is not about ur **** bro, learn to deal with it. If you care for her, let her go at her pace, if your just after the booty, it looks like she doenst want to perform anymore. So stop screwin her up and dump if you dont care, as it will be better for both of you.

In infamous jokes words "my head is up here".
 

TheMinistered

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Sounds like she liked you ALOT. In fact, she liked you so much that she did things for you that she didn't like doing. As time went by, she began wondering if you liked her for her or her for her mouth. She tested you, and you dumped her... she is bitter about it too and she is hurt because you used her for her mouth.

I have no problem with using them for their mouth, it's all good :)
 

LikRetsam

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Because you just realised she was worth more to you then sucking your ****ing ****.
 

Jester

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Well you didnt do anything wrong man.

Unless you mislead her in anyway you dont have feel guilty about anything. basically sucks for her.(no pun intended roflmao)

she shouldnt have sucked ur **** if she wasnt into sucking ****
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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