"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Why do I feel so....

Pimpology101

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 26, 2003
Messages
37
Reaction score
0
I dated this girl for a few months and she was crazy about me. Ever since we dated shes never denied me. She gave me head when I wanted etc. Everything was good, but all of the sudden she says its weird to do stuff. She wants to slow down. I said thats fine but she just stopped, and denied me twice when i wanted a bj on 2 different occations. I broke up with her cause I wasnt happy anymore with the attitude she was giving me. Now shes upset (crying) and told me to stop hurting her.... was this the right move djs??? If so, how long should I give her before i try to hit it up again?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

JSH

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 20, 2003
Messages
1,088
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
London
Sounds a bit crazy, maybe she was so desperate to get with you she tried everything, becomming an Female version of an AFC and then realised that you just want her cos what she does to you. Life is not about ur **** bro, learn to deal with it. If you care for her, let her go at her pace, if your just after the booty, it looks like she doenst want to perform anymore. So stop screwin her up and dump if you dont care, as it will be better for both of you.

In infamous jokes words "my head is up here".
 

TheMinistered

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 16, 2003
Messages
114
Reaction score
0
Sounds like she liked you ALOT. In fact, she liked you so much that she did things for you that she didn't like doing. As time went by, she began wondering if you liked her for her or her for her mouth. She tested you, and you dumped her... she is bitter about it too and she is hurt because you used her for her mouth.

I have no problem with using them for their mouth, it's all good :)
 

LikRetsam

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2003
Messages
1,633
Reaction score
1
Because you just realised she was worth more to you then sucking your ****ing ****.
 

Jester

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 6, 2001
Messages
1,949
Reaction score
7
Location
NJ, USA
Well you didnt do anything wrong man.

Unless you mislead her in anyway you dont have feel guilty about anything. basically sucks for her.(no pun intended roflmao)

she shouldnt have sucked ur **** if she wasnt into sucking ****
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top