"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why do I diss girls that are interested in me?

sbgm

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Why do I always diss the girls who likes me and every girl I like doesn't like me?

Anyone who had this problem and solved it, please respond! Thank you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko

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I really think most of this seduction stuff is all about value.
If you're a 7, you're going to be most attracted to 8s and 9s (who will have better options than you).
Meantime, the 6s and below are going to be attracted to you because you are higher value than them. But you will want better so you diss them.

The solution is to either raise your value so you can get 8s and above, find someone on your level, or find a lower value girl that you like.
Or you can do like Mystery, and fake being high value long enough to get them into bed. But it probably won't work much longer than that.
 

handle

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you straight-up insulting them? usually inadvertently dissing girls has worked out well for me.
 

konmai

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i usually diss the girls i'm insecure around (meaning the ones that I like). i'm actually nice to the girls i have no interest in. weird.
 

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You could be an ******* who's only nice to those who don't want you, and treat you poorly. Typically, *******s are only nice to *****es who put them down - as they're perceived as being high value. Seeking their approval is normal for *******s. Low self-esteem is usually at the root of this problem, and all that crap about replaying earlier experiences of abuse and neglect, and trying to be good enough this time. Your perspectives are skewed on what high value actually is - its not the snobby *****es who neglect you, but the nice ones who care about you. This applies to people in general. Only those who care are worth worrying about.

If you don't actually insult them, and are simply referring to a lack of interest - this is very normal. Everyone wants what they can't have, and is out of their reach. Everyone complains about not liking those who want them, and wanting those who don't. Not to say this is healthy - IF you continue to pine after them. That usually means you have low self-esteem, and are gonna be alone forever.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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