"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Why do I diss girls that are interested in me?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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If you're a 7, you're going to be most attracted to 8s and 9s (who will have better options than you).
Meantime, the 6s and below are going to be attracted to you because you are higher value than them. But you will want better so you diss them.
The solution is to either raise your value so you can get 8s and above, find someone on your level, or find a lower value girl that you like.
Or you can do like Mystery, and fake being high value long enough to get them into bed. But it probably won't work much longer than that.
If you don't actually insult them, and are simply referring to a lack of interest - this is very normal. Everyone wants what they can't have, and is out of their reach. Everyone complains about not liking those who want them, and wanting those who don't. Not to say this is healthy - IF you continue to pine after them. That usually means you have low self-esteem, and are gonna be alone forever.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.