DariusTheBartender
Don Juan
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Ok... so I am seeing about 3 women right now. I say about because sometimes I have a one night stand or a random tinder date. I went on a weekend trip w one of them. She got a little drunk and told me about guys she was seeing. The week prior she had found one of the other girls hair in my bed and loosely complained. Anyway she told me a little bit about them. Nothing x rated but we both know we are sleeping w other people... but something about her saying it kind of hit me hard. I have a vasectomy so no issues about pregnancy here.
Of the 3 I am seeing... she is the oldest, only one w kids, basically on paper at least she has the LEAST going for her. The other 2 are both early to mid twenties one of which clears 150k a year. The sex with this one isn't even the best... only thing I can finger is that she is closest to my type than the other two.... damn latinas always get me!!!
Anyway... my question... why do I care? It's like I knew we were both sleeping around but once she admits it... it suddenly made me feel like I should have tried to be monogamous w her or cut it off earlier. Dont worry my brain knows hardcore she is bad news... single mom, hot mess, but does have a good job and is a decent human otherwise.
My other question... is it just my ego that got hurt? some type of weird rejection I need to be the winner bull****....
Anyway... not gonna date her or get serious. Pretty much called things off since it's been 5 months. Just wondering psychological what happened. Tough skin so hit me hard w opinions or slaps of logic in my face.
Thanks as always men.
Of the 3 I am seeing... she is the oldest, only one w kids, basically on paper at least she has the LEAST going for her. The other 2 are both early to mid twenties one of which clears 150k a year. The sex with this one isn't even the best... only thing I can finger is that she is closest to my type than the other two.... damn latinas always get me!!!
Anyway... my question... why do I care? It's like I knew we were both sleeping around but once she admits it... it suddenly made me feel like I should have tried to be monogamous w her or cut it off earlier. Dont worry my brain knows hardcore she is bad news... single mom, hot mess, but does have a good job and is a decent human otherwise.
My other question... is it just my ego that got hurt? some type of weird rejection I need to be the winner bull****....
Anyway... not gonna date her or get serious. Pretty much called things off since it's been 5 months. Just wondering psychological what happened. Tough skin so hit me hard w opinions or slaps of logic in my face.
Thanks as always men.