prairiedog24
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I think a good answer is:
"I'll tell you someday..."
"I'll tell you someday..."
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why do guys ask....
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tell them to read the DJ bible... If they did, they would know you aren't suppose to bring this sh1t up.. Really, just lie, girls are good liars. It doesn't matter what you say.Cinamon said:I want to know why do guys ask the following:
Are you a virgin?
How many guys have you slept with?
How many boyfriends have you had?
And I am happy lying through my teeth, so what would be respectable response.
I usually give some really bizarre answers to these questions, but need to know what a respectable answer would be.
Furyguy
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In general conversation, probably to find out how likely you are to **** them.
Or are we talking a dude you have already been dating for a while?
Or, are we talking the two of you already in bed together, clothes off, about to start going at it, and these questions start flying?
Can I ask, why not just be honest with them?
Anyways, personally, if I was with a woman of your age, and she said something like "I have had [5-10] boyfriends throughout my life, and each of these relationships lasted a couple years, and I never cheated on any of them, and they are the only men I've slept with" I would be damn impressed by what a good girl you are but still not feel like you're a boring prude since you have a valid and justifiable excuse for not sleeping around like a cheap *****. And if you're worried about coming across as an uptight good girl and losing the guy's interest... well, you're a woman, I'm sure you know 1,001 ways to let a dude know you might want to **** him.
And let me fire the same question back at you, as a woman what would you like to hear if you ever decide to ask this question? [Wait, women have no idea what they want...] Kidding, let me know what you think.
Or are we talking a dude you have already been dating for a while?
Or, are we talking the two of you already in bed together, clothes off, about to start going at it, and these questions start flying?
Can I ask, why not just be honest with them?
Anyways, personally, if I was with a woman of your age, and she said something like "I have had [5-10] boyfriends throughout my life, and each of these relationships lasted a couple years, and I never cheated on any of them, and they are the only men I've slept with" I would be damn impressed by what a good girl you are but still not feel like you're a boring prude since you have a valid and justifiable excuse for not sleeping around like a cheap *****. And if you're worried about coming across as an uptight good girl and losing the guy's interest... well, you're a woman, I'm sure you know 1,001 ways to let a dude know you might want to **** him.
And let me fire the same question back at you, as a woman what would you like to hear if you ever decide to ask this question? [Wait, women have no idea what they want...] Kidding, let me know what you think.
I want to know why do guys ask the following:
Are you a virgin?
How many guys have you slept with?
How many boyfriends have you had?
And I am happy lying through my teeth, so what would be respectable response.
I usually give some really bizarre answers to these questions, but need to know what a respectable answer would be.
I honestly don't think that anything you could say would be a respectable answer. Fact of the matter is it really isn't any of their business. You have to question why they would even bother to ask in the first place.
Are you a virgin?
How many guys have you slept with?
How many boyfriends have you had?
And I am happy lying through my teeth, so what would be respectable response.
I usually give some really bizarre answers to these questions, but need to know what a respectable answer would be.
I honestly don't think that anything you could say would be a respectable answer. Fact of the matter is it really isn't any of their business. You have to question why they would even bother to ask in the first place.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Are you a virgin?
How many guys have you slept with?
How many boyfriends have you had?
I never ask those things because I know she will lie. So whats the point in asking?
prairiedog24
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I'll admit to asking this before. I really didn't care what the answer was. I already knew she was a lot more experienced than I am. I was just trying to get some of the stories she tells into some kind of context.