prairiedog24
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I think a good answer is:
"I'll tell you someday..."
"I'll tell you someday..."
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why do guys ask....
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Tell them to read the DJ bible... If they did, they would know you aren't suppose to bring this sh1t up.. Really, just lie, girls are good liars. It doesn't matter what you say.Cinamon said:I want to know why do guys ask the following:
Are you a virgin?
How many guys have you slept with?
How many boyfriends have you had?
And I am happy lying through my teeth, so what would be respectable response.
I usually give some really bizarre answers to these questions, but need to know what a respectable answer would be.
Furyguy
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In general conversation, probably to find out how likely you are to **** them.
Or are we talking a dude you have already been dating for a while?
Or, are we talking the two of you already in bed together, clothes off, about to start going at it, and these questions start flying?
Can I ask, why not just be honest with them?
Anyways, personally, if I was with a woman of your age, and she said something like "I have had [5-10] boyfriends throughout my life, and each of these relationships lasted a couple years, and I never cheated on any of them, and they are the only men I've slept with" I would be damn impressed by what a good girl you are but still not feel like you're a boring prude since you have a valid and justifiable excuse for not sleeping around like a cheap *****. And if you're worried about coming across as an uptight good girl and losing the guy's interest... well, you're a woman, I'm sure you know 1,001 ways to let a dude know you might want to **** him.
And let me fire the same question back at you, as a woman what would you like to hear if you ever decide to ask this question? [Wait, women have no idea what they want...] Kidding, let me know what you think.
Or are we talking a dude you have already been dating for a while?
Or, are we talking the two of you already in bed together, clothes off, about to start going at it, and these questions start flying?
Can I ask, why not just be honest with them?
Anyways, personally, if I was with a woman of your age, and she said something like "I have had [5-10] boyfriends throughout my life, and each of these relationships lasted a couple years, and I never cheated on any of them, and they are the only men I've slept with" I would be damn impressed by what a good girl you are but still not feel like you're a boring prude since you have a valid and justifiable excuse for not sleeping around like a cheap *****. And if you're worried about coming across as an uptight good girl and losing the guy's interest... well, you're a woman, I'm sure you know 1,001 ways to let a dude know you might want to **** him.
And let me fire the same question back at you, as a woman what would you like to hear if you ever decide to ask this question? [Wait, women have no idea what they want...] Kidding, let me know what you think.
I want to know why do guys ask the following:
Are you a virgin?
How many guys have you slept with?
How many boyfriends have you had?
And I am happy lying through my teeth, so what would be respectable response.
I usually give some really bizarre answers to these questions, but need to know what a respectable answer would be.
I honestly don't think that anything you could say would be a respectable answer. Fact of the matter is it really isn't any of their business. You have to question why they would even bother to ask in the first place.
Are you a virgin?
How many guys have you slept with?
How many boyfriends have you had?
And I am happy lying through my teeth, so what would be respectable response.
I usually give some really bizarre answers to these questions, but need to know what a respectable answer would be.
I honestly don't think that anything you could say would be a respectable answer. Fact of the matter is it really isn't any of their business. You have to question why they would even bother to ask in the first place.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Are you a virgin?
How many guys have you slept with?
How many boyfriends have you had?
I never ask those things because I know she will lie. So whats the point in asking?
prairiedog24
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I'll admit to asking this before. I really didn't care what the answer was. I already knew she was a lot more experienced than I am. I was just trying to get some of the stories she tells into some kind of context.