prairiedog24
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I think a good answer is:
"I'll tell you someday..."
"I'll tell you someday..."
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Why do guys ask....
- Thread starter Cinamon
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tell them to read the DJ bible... If they did, they would know you aren't suppose to bring this sh1t up.. Really, just lie, girls are good liars. It doesn't matter what you say.Cinamon said:I want to know why do guys ask the following:
Are you a virgin?
How many guys have you slept with?
How many boyfriends have you had?
And I am happy lying through my teeth, so what would be respectable response.
I usually give some really bizarre answers to these questions, but need to know what a respectable answer would be.
Furyguy
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In general conversation, probably to find out how likely you are to **** them.
Or are we talking a dude you have already been dating for a while?
Or, are we talking the two of you already in bed together, clothes off, about to start going at it, and these questions start flying?
Can I ask, why not just be honest with them?
Anyways, personally, if I was with a woman of your age, and she said something like "I have had [5-10] boyfriends throughout my life, and each of these relationships lasted a couple years, and I never cheated on any of them, and they are the only men I've slept with" I would be damn impressed by what a good girl you are but still not feel like you're a boring prude since you have a valid and justifiable excuse for not sleeping around like a cheap *****. And if you're worried about coming across as an uptight good girl and losing the guy's interest... well, you're a woman, I'm sure you know 1,001 ways to let a dude know you might want to **** him.
And let me fire the same question back at you, as a woman what would you like to hear if you ever decide to ask this question? [Wait, women have no idea what they want...] Kidding, let me know what you think.
Or are we talking a dude you have already been dating for a while?
Or, are we talking the two of you already in bed together, clothes off, about to start going at it, and these questions start flying?
Can I ask, why not just be honest with them?
Anyways, personally, if I was with a woman of your age, and she said something like "I have had [5-10] boyfriends throughout my life, and each of these relationships lasted a couple years, and I never cheated on any of them, and they are the only men I've slept with" I would be damn impressed by what a good girl you are but still not feel like you're a boring prude since you have a valid and justifiable excuse for not sleeping around like a cheap *****. And if you're worried about coming across as an uptight good girl and losing the guy's interest... well, you're a woman, I'm sure you know 1,001 ways to let a dude know you might want to **** him.
And let me fire the same question back at you, as a woman what would you like to hear if you ever decide to ask this question? [Wait, women have no idea what they want...] Kidding, let me know what you think.
I want to know why do guys ask the following:
Are you a virgin?
How many guys have you slept with?
How many boyfriends have you had?
And I am happy lying through my teeth, so what would be respectable response.
I usually give some really bizarre answers to these questions, but need to know what a respectable answer would be.
I honestly don't think that anything you could say would be a respectable answer. Fact of the matter is it really isn't any of their business. You have to question why they would even bother to ask in the first place.
Are you a virgin?
How many guys have you slept with?
How many boyfriends have you had?
And I am happy lying through my teeth, so what would be respectable response.
I usually give some really bizarre answers to these questions, but need to know what a respectable answer would be.
I honestly don't think that anything you could say would be a respectable answer. Fact of the matter is it really isn't any of their business. You have to question why they would even bother to ask in the first place.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Vlad the Impaler
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Are you a virgin?
How many guys have you slept with?
How many boyfriends have you had?
I never ask those things because I know she will lie. So whats the point in asking?
prairiedog24
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I'll admit to asking this before. I really didn't care what the answer was. I already knew she was a lot more experienced than I am. I was just trying to get some of the stories she tells into some kind of context.