SeymourCake
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Happened to a dude's friend who goes on another forum.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Why do girls take pride in rejecting men?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
RagingBalls
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it happens 
...until that guy dates one of her friends and later realized she liked the guy too late and turned bitter. lmao
I believe some of them brags about it too, that they rejected a guy and takes pride in doing so, then she'll told her circle of friends about it that this guy asked her out but she turned him down. It's one sure way to boost her ego. lolSeymourCake said:
...until that guy dates one of her friends and later realized she liked the guy too late and turned bitter. lmao
Night-hawk
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For an ego boost or to deflect the oh-so unreal, implausible, awful idea of a man's rejection of her.
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Because they know you will "aninimously" post about it....
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
zekko
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If they reject you, they get the validation of you wanting to go out with them, but they don't have to put out. There's probably some logic in there about how that makes them more chaste, since they're choosey about who they sleep with. It's almost a win/win for them.
Mike32ct
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It's ego. "I reject because I CAN. I'm so hot that I turn guys away."
Her whole existence is based on being hot or at least thinking she's hot plus all of the power trips that come with it.
This can be offensive to young guys and understandably so. When you get older or possibly sooner, it can become laughable or at least so lame that YOU roll your eyes.
Her whole existence is based on being hot or at least thinking she's hot plus all of the power trips that come with it.
This can be offensive to young guys and understandably so. When you get older or possibly sooner, it can become laughable or at least so lame that YOU roll your eyes.
Duracell_Bunny
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This pi$$es me off.
What I find worse is they act like school children when we reject them. I remember chatting to a HB in a bar some time ago. We kissed and I pulled away - she must have had a cigarette not long before.
For me it was disgusting, although I was polite to her as I walked away. Her reaction, going crazy called me every name possible and tried to spoil the rest of my evening by letting everyone know in the establishment. Even the security guys came over wondering what I did.
What I find worse is they act like school children when we reject them. I remember chatting to a HB in a bar some time ago. We kissed and I pulled away - she must have had a cigarette not long before.
For me it was disgusting, although I was polite to her as I walked away. Her reaction, going crazy called me every name possible and tried to spoil the rest of my evening by letting everyone know in the establishment. Even the security guys came over wondering what I did.
nismo-4
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And how do you think women feel when men reject them? Many are unfazed, as they have beta orbiters to back them up. You don't see or hear that many stories of men with female beta orbiters.