SeymourCake
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Happened to a dude's friend who goes on another forum.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Why do girls take pride in rejecting men?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
RagingBalls
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it happens 
...until that guy dates one of her friends and later realized she liked the guy too late and turned bitter. lmao
I believe some of them brags about it too, that they rejected a guy and takes pride in doing so, then she'll told her circle of friends about it that this guy asked her out but she turned him down. It's one sure way to boost her ego. lolSeymourCake said:
...until that guy dates one of her friends and later realized she liked the guy too late and turned bitter. lmao
Night-hawk
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For an ego boost or to deflect the oh-so unreal, implausible, awful idea of a man's rejection of her.
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Because they know you will "aninimously" post about it....
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
zekko
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If they reject you, they get the validation of you wanting to go out with them, but they don't have to put out. There's probably some logic in there about how that makes them more chaste, since they're choosey about who they sleep with. It's almost a win/win for them.
Mike32ct
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It's ego. "I reject because I CAN. I'm so hot that I turn guys away."
Her whole existence is based on being hot or at least thinking she's hot plus all of the power trips that come with it.
This can be offensive to young guys and understandably so. When you get older or possibly sooner, it can become laughable or at least so lame that YOU roll your eyes.
Her whole existence is based on being hot or at least thinking she's hot plus all of the power trips that come with it.
This can be offensive to young guys and understandably so. When you get older or possibly sooner, it can become laughable or at least so lame that YOU roll your eyes.
Duracell_Bunny
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This pi$$es me off.
What I find worse is they act like school children when we reject them. I remember chatting to a HB in a bar some time ago. We kissed and I pulled away - she must have had a cigarette not long before.
For me it was disgusting, although I was polite to her as I walked away. Her reaction, going crazy called me every name possible and tried to spoil the rest of my evening by letting everyone know in the establishment. Even the security guys came over wondering what I did.
What I find worse is they act like school children when we reject them. I remember chatting to a HB in a bar some time ago. We kissed and I pulled away - she must have had a cigarette not long before.
For me it was disgusting, although I was polite to her as I walked away. Her reaction, going crazy called me every name possible and tried to spoil the rest of my evening by letting everyone know in the establishment. Even the security guys came over wondering what I did.
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And how do you think women feel when men reject them? Many are unfazed, as they have beta orbiters to back them up. You don't see or hear that many stories of men with female beta orbiters.