So I got this girls number I work with yesterday who I was gettin the vibe she liked me and I text her today askin when shes free to go out and she just responds 'I work all week" and thats all..I tried makin a joke like "ill get you off i can pull some strings" something like that just to be playful and she didnt respond back...but at work I can tell she likes me she gets nervous when Im around and tries talking to me..so is she playin hard to get? and wanting me to keep pursuing her? maybe she wants me to ask her in person idk know lol
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
why do girls play hot and cold
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mantis Toboggan
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Maybe. It always seemed to me that girls who like you will make it easier for you to ask them out. Not harder.
At least for a first date. After that, maybe they'll play games.
At least for a first date. After that, maybe they'll play games.
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because katy perry made a song about it and now all the chickiboos think its the cool thing to do
damn you mainstream pop music!
damn you mainstream pop music!
MyTeamSupreme
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I'm only 21 but I feel that I've grown too old for this sh!t. If a broad starts that "I don't like you today but I will tomorrow nonsense" with me I get bored very quickly. You support that mess by simply paying attention to her
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
romanticman
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Actions speak louder than words is all I can say. A woman can tell me until she is blue in the face that she digs me but if she doesnt even accept the date then ignore her sorry lil ass.
*Sight*. She doesn't respond enthousiastic so she doesn't like you. End of story.
What about her trying to talk to you and being nervous? Please, don't look for signs of interest, because if you do, you will find them. Not because they really are there, but because you take every signal a girl gives you and turn it and twist it untill your insecure mind tells you that she likes you. Just because a girl is nice, smiles, laughs at your jokes etc.
You know what? F*ck signs of interest. Don't believe that stuff. If a girl likes you, she will let you know beyond doubt. It's that simple.
What about her trying to talk to you and being nervous? Please, don't look for signs of interest, because if you do, you will find them. Not because they really are there, but because you take every signal a girl gives you and turn it and twist it untill your insecure mind tells you that she likes you. Just because a girl is nice, smiles, laughs at your jokes etc.
You know what? F*ck signs of interest. Don't believe that stuff. If a girl likes you, she will let you know beyond doubt. It's that simple.
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hustler69 said:So I got this girls number I work with yesterday who I was gettin the vibe she liked me and I text her today askin when shes free to go out and she just responds 'I work all week" and thats all..I tried makin a joke like "ill get you off i can pull some strings" something like that just to be playful and she didnt respond back...but at work I can tell she likes me she gets nervous when Im around and tries talking to me..so is she playin hard to get? and wanting me to keep pursuing her? maybe she wants me to ask her in person idk know lol
Maybe she got upset about anything, maybe there was something wrong and she wanted you to be a little compassionate to her. She seems like the type that can have a hell of an attitude too though. I would just cut to the point with her and ask her where is all of this going and then see what response you get back.
How to get a girlfriend
You work with her?
So obviously she doesn't want to come off as too easy and have it go around the whole office.
As a recent example, I recently hooked up with a chick from my office:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=175932
JUDGE A WOMAN FROM HER ACTIONS, NOT HER WORDS
It only started slow with me not knowing if she was interested and slowly escalating.
From when we first started chatting by e-mail to when I banged her was a period of 2 weeks. And a couple of days before the second time we were together (when I banged her), she specifically said that next time we met up, we'd be keeping all our clothing on! haha
Having said that though, once I had her number and suggested a time, she accepted it.
"I work all week" is a pretty lame excuse, but what do you expect from girls?
Just keep it spinning, but also pursue other options.
So obviously she doesn't want to come off as too easy and have it go around the whole office.
As a recent example, I recently hooked up with a chick from my office:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=175932
JUDGE A WOMAN FROM HER ACTIONS, NOT HER WORDS
It only started slow with me not knowing if she was interested and slowly escalating.
From when we first started chatting by e-mail to when I banged her was a period of 2 weeks. And a couple of days before the second time we were together (when I banged her), she specifically said that next time we met up, we'd be keeping all our clothing on! haha
Having said that though, once I had her number and suggested a time, she accepted it.
"I work all week" is a pretty lame excuse, but what do you expect from girls?
Just keep it spinning, but also pursue other options.