So I got this girls number I work with yesterday who I was gettin the vibe she liked me and I text her today askin when shes free to go out and she just responds 'I work all week" and thats all..I tried makin a joke like "ill get you off i can pull some strings" something like that just to be playful and she didnt respond back...but at work I can tell she likes me she gets nervous when Im around and tries talking to me..so is she playin hard to get? and wanting me to keep pursuing her? maybe she wants me to ask her in person idk know lol
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
why do girls play hot and cold
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mantis Toboggan
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Maybe. It always seemed to me that girls who like you will make it easier for you to ask them out. Not harder.
At least for a first date. After that, maybe they'll play games.
At least for a first date. After that, maybe they'll play games.
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because katy perry made a song about it and now all the chickiboos think its the cool thing to do
damn you mainstream pop music!
damn you mainstream pop music!
MyTeamSupreme
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I'm only 21 but I feel that I've grown too old for this sh!t. If a broad starts that "I don't like you today but I will tomorrow nonsense" with me I get bored very quickly. You support that mess by simply paying attention to her
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Actions speak louder than words is all I can say. A woman can tell me until she is blue in the face that she digs me but if she doesnt even accept the date then ignore her sorry lil ass.
*Sight*. She doesn't respond enthousiastic so she doesn't like you. End of story.
What about her trying to talk to you and being nervous? Please, don't look for signs of interest, because if you do, you will find them. Not because they really are there, but because you take every signal a girl gives you and turn it and twist it untill your insecure mind tells you that she likes you. Just because a girl is nice, smiles, laughs at your jokes etc.
You know what? F*ck signs of interest. Don't believe that stuff. If a girl likes you, she will let you know beyond doubt. It's that simple.
What about her trying to talk to you and being nervous? Please, don't look for signs of interest, because if you do, you will find them. Not because they really are there, but because you take every signal a girl gives you and turn it and twist it untill your insecure mind tells you that she likes you. Just because a girl is nice, smiles, laughs at your jokes etc.
You know what? F*ck signs of interest. Don't believe that stuff. If a girl likes you, she will let you know beyond doubt. It's that simple.
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hustler69 said:So I got this girls number I work with yesterday who I was gettin the vibe she liked me and I text her today askin when shes free to go out and she just responds 'I work all week" and thats all..I tried makin a joke like "ill get you off i can pull some strings" something like that just to be playful and she didnt respond back...but at work I can tell she likes me she gets nervous when Im around and tries talking to me..so is she playin hard to get? and wanting me to keep pursuing her? maybe she wants me to ask her in person idk know lol
Maybe she got upset about anything, maybe there was something wrong and she wanted you to be a little compassionate to her. She seems like the type that can have a hell of an attitude too though. I would just cut to the point with her and ask her where is all of this going and then see what response you get back.
How to get a girlfriend
You work with her?
So obviously she doesn't want to come off as too easy and have it go around the whole office.
As a recent example, I recently hooked up with a chick from my office:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=175932
JUDGE A WOMAN FROM HER ACTIONS, NOT HER WORDS
It only started slow with me not knowing if she was interested and slowly escalating.
From when we first started chatting by e-mail to when I banged her was a period of 2 weeks. And a couple of days before the second time we were together (when I banged her), she specifically said that next time we met up, we'd be keeping all our clothing on! haha
Having said that though, once I had her number and suggested a time, she accepted it.
"I work all week" is a pretty lame excuse, but what do you expect from girls?
Just keep it spinning, but also pursue other options.
So obviously she doesn't want to come off as too easy and have it go around the whole office.
As a recent example, I recently hooked up with a chick from my office:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=175932
JUDGE A WOMAN FROM HER ACTIONS, NOT HER WORDS
It only started slow with me not knowing if she was interested and slowly escalating.
From when we first started chatting by e-mail to when I banged her was a period of 2 weeks. And a couple of days before the second time we were together (when I banged her), she specifically said that next time we met up, we'd be keeping all our clothing on! haha
Having said that though, once I had her number and suggested a time, she accepted it.
"I work all week" is a pretty lame excuse, but what do you expect from girls?
Just keep it spinning, but also pursue other options.