So I got this girls number I work with yesterday who I was gettin the vibe she liked me and I text her today askin when shes free to go out and she just responds 'I work all week" and thats all..I tried makin a joke like "ill get you off i can pull some strings" something like that just to be playful and she didnt respond back...but at work I can tell she likes me she gets nervous when Im around and tries talking to me..so is she playin hard to get? and wanting me to keep pursuing her? maybe she wants me to ask her in person idk know lol
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
why do girls play hot and cold
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mantis Toboggan
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Maybe. It always seemed to me that girls who like you will make it easier for you to ask them out. Not harder.
At least for a first date. After that, maybe they'll play games.
At least for a first date. After that, maybe they'll play games.
hexx
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because katy perry made a song about it and now all the chickiboos think its the cool thing to do
damn you mainstream pop music!
damn you mainstream pop music!
MyTeamSupreme
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I'm only 21 but I feel that I've grown too old for this sh!t. If a broad starts that "I don't like you today but I will tomorrow nonsense" with me I get bored very quickly. You support that mess by simply paying attention to her
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
romanticman
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Actions speak louder than words is all I can say. A woman can tell me until she is blue in the face that she digs me but if she doesnt even accept the date then ignore her sorry lil ass.
*Sight*. She doesn't respond enthousiastic so she doesn't like you. End of story.
What about her trying to talk to you and being nervous? Please, don't look for signs of interest, because if you do, you will find them. Not because they really are there, but because you take every signal a girl gives you and turn it and twist it untill your insecure mind tells you that she likes you. Just because a girl is nice, smiles, laughs at your jokes etc.
You know what? F*ck signs of interest. Don't believe that stuff. If a girl likes you, she will let you know beyond doubt. It's that simple.
What about her trying to talk to you and being nervous? Please, don't look for signs of interest, because if you do, you will find them. Not because they really are there, but because you take every signal a girl gives you and turn it and twist it untill your insecure mind tells you that she likes you. Just because a girl is nice, smiles, laughs at your jokes etc.
You know what? F*ck signs of interest. Don't believe that stuff. If a girl likes you, she will let you know beyond doubt. It's that simple.
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hustler69 said:So I got this girls number I work with yesterday who I was gettin the vibe she liked me and I text her today askin when shes free to go out and she just responds 'I work all week" and thats all..I tried makin a joke like "ill get you off i can pull some strings" something like that just to be playful and she didnt respond back...but at work I can tell she likes me she gets nervous when Im around and tries talking to me..so is she playin hard to get? and wanting me to keep pursuing her? maybe she wants me to ask her in person idk know lol
Maybe she got upset about anything, maybe there was something wrong and she wanted you to be a little compassionate to her. She seems like the type that can have a hell of an attitude too though. I would just cut to the point with her and ask her where is all of this going and then see what response you get back.
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You work with her?
So obviously she doesn't want to come off as too easy and have it go around the whole office.
As a recent example, I recently hooked up with a chick from my office:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=175932
JUDGE A WOMAN FROM HER ACTIONS, NOT HER WORDS
It only started slow with me not knowing if she was interested and slowly escalating.
From when we first started chatting by e-mail to when I banged her was a period of 2 weeks. And a couple of days before the second time we were together (when I banged her), she specifically said that next time we met up, we'd be keeping all our clothing on! haha
Having said that though, once I had her number and suggested a time, she accepted it.
"I work all week" is a pretty lame excuse, but what do you expect from girls?
Just keep it spinning, but also pursue other options.
So obviously she doesn't want to come off as too easy and have it go around the whole office.
As a recent example, I recently hooked up with a chick from my office:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=175932
JUDGE A WOMAN FROM HER ACTIONS, NOT HER WORDS
It only started slow with me not knowing if she was interested and slowly escalating.
From when we first started chatting by e-mail to when I banged her was a period of 2 weeks. And a couple of days before the second time we were together (when I banged her), she specifically said that next time we met up, we'd be keeping all our clothing on! haha
Having said that though, once I had her number and suggested a time, she accepted it.
"I work all week" is a pretty lame excuse, but what do you expect from girls?
Just keep it spinning, but also pursue other options.