You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
u know what to do in situations like these right? U take your homeboy/buddy and mack him HARD right next to these AW's and show them the fcuk up! That'll should take the attention away from these ho's...BeyondCharm said:Are they really that desperate for attention that they must make out?
And are these girls who enjoy and look forward to making out with their girlfriends going to move on to other non-hetero things?
Discuss.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Look at my signature. I don't like the answer "they do it for attention" because hot girls don't need to impress anyone. They already know they're hot from guys hitting on them.Jaxon said:If ever there was an overreactive retort coming from a chick pretending to be a "Master Don Juan", this was it.
Wait a minute, are you a hot girl? If not how would you know for sure?Master Don Juan said:Look at my signature. I don't like the answer "they do it for attention" because hot girls don't need to impress anyone. They already know they're hot from guys hitting on them.
I'm telling you it's not only attention. Many girls will admit they make out with their friends while they are ALONE. I think they just enjoy the understanding they have of each other. Not that their all bi, some will get physical with other girls, but wont actually go on dates with other girls.BeyondCharm said:Are they really that desperate for attention that they must make out?
And are these girls who enjoy and look forward to making out with their girlfriends going to move on to other non-hetero things?
Discuss.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm not sure if this is some kind of attack on my sexuality but I'll disregard it. Anyways, I was saying that kissing among straight women is acceptable by our society because no one gets grossed out by it as they would if men were to do the same thing. It's just like observing two girls dancing together with their arms locked to the beat of the music. Can two straight guys do that without being laughed at? Probably not. It goes back to the idea that women are more emotional creatures who can share things with each other openly whereas guys can't get emotional with each other without feeling awkward. It's only acceptable for guys if it is done in some kind of joking, pseudo-homosexual way.BeyondCharm said:So by your logic, if it was "acceptable" then if it were also acceptable for guys to do it, more guys, maybe you included would be doing it.
Acceptable by who is the real question to you? Your society, global society, human species, ??