Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
u know what to do in situations like these right? U take your homeboy/buddy and mack him HARD right next to these AW's and show them the fcuk up! That'll should take the attention away from these ho's...BeyondCharm said:Are they really that desperate for attention that they must make out?
And are these girls who enjoy and look forward to making out with their girlfriends going to move on to other non-hetero things?
Discuss.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Look at my signature. I don't like the answer "they do it for attention" because hot girls don't need to impress anyone. They already know they're hot from guys hitting on them.Jaxon said:If ever there was an overreactive retort coming from a chick pretending to be a "Master Don Juan", this was it.
Wait a minute, are you a hot girl? If not how would you know for sure?Master Don Juan said:Look at my signature. I don't like the answer "they do it for attention" because hot girls don't need to impress anyone. They already know they're hot from guys hitting on them.
I'm telling you it's not only attention. Many girls will admit they make out with their friends while they are ALONE. I think they just enjoy the understanding they have of each other. Not that their all bi, some will get physical with other girls, but wont actually go on dates with other girls.BeyondCharm said:Are they really that desperate for attention that they must make out?
And are these girls who enjoy and look forward to making out with their girlfriends going to move on to other non-hetero things?
Discuss.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm not sure if this is some kind of attack on my sexuality but I'll disregard it. Anyways, I was saying that kissing among straight women is acceptable by our society because no one gets grossed out by it as they would if men were to do the same thing. It's just like observing two girls dancing together with their arms locked to the beat of the music. Can two straight guys do that without being laughed at? Probably not. It goes back to the idea that women are more emotional creatures who can share things with each other openly whereas guys can't get emotional with each other without feeling awkward. It's only acceptable for guys if it is done in some kind of joking, pseudo-homosexual way.BeyondCharm said:So by your logic, if it was "acceptable" then if it were also acceptable for guys to do it, more guys, maybe you included would be doing it.
Acceptable by who is the real question to you? Your society, global society, human species, ??