She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
u know what to do in situations like these right? U take your homeboy/buddy and mack him HARD right next to these AW's and show them the fcuk up! That'll should take the attention away from these ho's...BeyondCharm said:Are they really that desperate for attention that they must make out?
And are these girls who enjoy and look forward to making out with their girlfriends going to move on to other non-hetero things?
Discuss.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Look at my signature. I don't like the answer "they do it for attention" because hot girls don't need to impress anyone. They already know they're hot from guys hitting on them.Jaxon said:If ever there was an overreactive retort coming from a chick pretending to be a "Master Don Juan", this was it.
Wait a minute, are you a hot girl? If not how would you know for sure?Master Don Juan said:Look at my signature. I don't like the answer "they do it for attention" because hot girls don't need to impress anyone. They already know they're hot from guys hitting on them.
I'm telling you it's not only attention. Many girls will admit they make out with their friends while they are ALONE. I think they just enjoy the understanding they have of each other. Not that their all bi, some will get physical with other girls, but wont actually go on dates with other girls.BeyondCharm said:Are they really that desperate for attention that they must make out?
And are these girls who enjoy and look forward to making out with their girlfriends going to move on to other non-hetero things?
Discuss.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm not sure if this is some kind of attack on my sexuality but I'll disregard it. Anyways, I was saying that kissing among straight women is acceptable by our society because no one gets grossed out by it as they would if men were to do the same thing. It's just like observing two girls dancing together with their arms locked to the beat of the music. Can two straight guys do that without being laughed at? Probably not. It goes back to the idea that women are more emotional creatures who can share things with each other openly whereas guys can't get emotional with each other without feeling awkward. It's only acceptable for guys if it is done in some kind of joking, pseudo-homosexual way.BeyondCharm said:So by your logic, if it was "acceptable" then if it were also acceptable for guys to do it, more guys, maybe you included would be doing it.
Acceptable by who is the real question to you? Your society, global society, human species, ??