Why do girls keep thinking I want to just "hang out" with them?

[skinnydart]

For some reason all the girls I've gone on "dates" with think that I'm just "hanging out" with them. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I mean, when I call...

ME: Hey kara, it's skinnydart
HER: Hey! blah, blah
ME: Yeah, I was just calling to see if you wanted to go see movie name with me tomorrow.
HER: Tomorrow evening... yeah I don't work tomorrow so that'll work.
ME: Great, I get off of work at 5:30, so I'll pick you up at 5:45 at your dorm and we'll go get some dinner before?
HER: Ok, yeah, it'll be fun to hang out.

I'm sitting there thinking "uh, didn't I just ask you on a date".

And their behavior on the date shows the same thing, like they're suprised when I tell her I'm actually picking her up and we're not driving our own seperate cars, and then she starts chatting with the waiter (some guy she evidently knew) who basicly asked her out in front of me while she completely ignores me, she talks about other guy's she's dat(ed/ing). It's so annoying!

How do I make it clear that I'm actually wanting to date her not just hang out with her? Note: these girls are all juniors in college, 2+ years older than me, I'm 17)

 

[Microphone Fiend]

check out Tyler Duerdens archives (i think) @ Fastseduction. If thats' the guy i remember his game was tailored and gurls always thot that they were just hanging out, and they'd like go out with him wearing sweatpants and all this other sh!t you wudn't wear on a date, but he was able to lay them consistently

 

[nw1512]

Stop acting like a friend to them and work on building some attraction toward you.

She make it clear what the dynamic was when she said "it will be fun to hang out"

Make it clear what you want to happen.

Get them to pick you up and take you next time, and the time after that etc.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Cuz you come off and look like the type of guy who would be "just freinds" with a woman.

You need to work on establishing your attraction right of the bat through b/l and a better choice of words.

You can make a freindship into a sex-love thing depending on your situation though so don't just haul ass cuz of that.

 

[ScrewIt]

dude where's the kino, wheres the date kiss?

stop treating them like friends and treat them like you want them.
show off your maleness, by being a male. dont be another one of her gf's.