"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why do girls keep going back to the bad guys?

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I don't get it, this girl that I know is 19 and married to a 40 year old, they have been having really bad issues for quite some time and she has been spending more time with me, she was with me on their 1 year and the other night he raped her because he thinks if he gets her pregnet she will stay, for some reason she keeps going back to that house, she has said she has no more feelings for him but yet still goes back, ends up in some crazy fight and runs away almost nightly.

What the heck is wrong with people?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What the heck is wrong with people?
Well, Muppet, for starters you seem to not know that much about women.
I wouldn't go as far as saying there's "something wrong" with you, though.
But,yeah, there is something wrong about your perceptions.
But try to get over this anger, and resentment, and thinking you can force people to do what you expect them to do.
Learn about women, and improve yourself. Those are your responsibilities.

I hope I answered your question.
Good luck!
 

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Try talking down to her and giving her a good b1tch slap once in a while. She'll be all yours. :)
 

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Then buy her flowers and candy!!

Then tell her she's a "dirty wh*re"!!

There you have it!
The Emotional Rollercoaster Women WANT!!!!




I'm bad, right?
I shouldn't have done that.
Bad Interceptor! Bad! Bad!

Oh, well...it's all in fun.
 

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Muppet said:
What the heck is wrong with people?
To anwser your question:

People are emotional beings, especially women, and they want what they can't have. What you're seeing is an emotional reaction to not having something and wanting to fill that emotional void. There is nothing rational about this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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why is it people on this website and life in general want to go after the most wounded and fvcked up people in the world.

I wouldn't want her even if I could get her. Too much emotional baggage. There is way to many good looking girls out there to go after a fvcked up one.

comic_relief
 

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Give them what they want by not giving them what they want.
 

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comic_relief said:
why is it people on this website and life in general want to go after the most wounded and fvcked up people in the world.

I wouldn't want her even if I could get her. Too much emotional baggage. There is way to many good looking girls out there to go after a fvcked up one.

comic_relief

But she SMILED at me!

Besides, ALL woman are crazy. ALL OF THEM.

:rolleyes:
 

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comic_relief said:
why is it people on this website and life in general want to go after the most wounded and fvcked up people in the world. ..
Women (especially those in need) give many men purpose.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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The girl is a HOR! The 40 year old man is her pimp.

She keeps going back to him (her pimp) to pay him so she has someone to support her.
 

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Well, out of all that, Bachelor was the only one who actually answered the question. Can't a guy get a straight answer around here, instead of a bunch of wanking?
 

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PrinceBeavis said:
Well, out of all that, Bachelor was the only one who actually answered the question. Can't a guy get a straight answer around here, instead of a bunch of wanking?
Beavis, may I remind you that perhaps 99% of ALL the Goddamned questions people have here are answered already not only in archived posts, but in the DJBible???

How about cutting us some slack, huh?? Just a little??!



Read the DJ Bible, people.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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