"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why do girls keep going back to the bad guys?

Muppet

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I don't get it, this girl that I know is 19 and married to a 40 year old, they have been having really bad issues for quite some time and she has been spending more time with me, she was with me on their 1 year and the other night he raped her because he thinks if he gets her pregnet she will stay, for some reason she keeps going back to that house, she has said she has no more feelings for him but yet still goes back, ends up in some crazy fight and runs away almost nightly.

What the heck is wrong with people?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What the heck is wrong with people?
Well, Muppet, for starters you seem to not know that much about women.
I wouldn't go as far as saying there's "something wrong" with you, though.
But,yeah, there is something wrong about your perceptions.
But try to get over this anger, and resentment, and thinking you can force people to do what you expect them to do.
Learn about women, and improve yourself. Those are your responsibilities.

I hope I answered your question.
Good luck!
 

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Try talking down to her and giving her a good b1tch slap once in a while. She'll be all yours. :)
 

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:crackup:
Then buy her flowers and candy!!

Then tell her she's a "dirty wh*re"!!

There you have it!
The Emotional Rollercoaster Women WANT!!!!




I'm bad, right?
I shouldn't have done that.
Bad Interceptor! Bad! Bad!

Oh, well...it's all in fun.
 

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Muppet said:
What the heck is wrong with people?
To anwser your question:

People are emotional beings, especially women, and they want what they can't have. What you're seeing is an emotional reaction to not having something and wanting to fill that emotional void. There is nothing rational about this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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why is it people on this website and life in general want to go after the most wounded and fvcked up people in the world.

I wouldn't want her even if I could get her. Too much emotional baggage. There is way to many good looking girls out there to go after a fvcked up one.

comic_relief
 

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Give them what they want by not giving them what they want.
 

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comic_relief said:
why is it people on this website and life in general want to go after the most wounded and fvcked up people in the world.

I wouldn't want her even if I could get her. Too much emotional baggage. There is way to many good looking girls out there to go after a fvcked up one.

comic_relief

But she SMILED at me!

Besides, ALL woman are crazy. ALL OF THEM.

:rolleyes:
 

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comic_relief said:
why is it people on this website and life in general want to go after the most wounded and fvcked up people in the world. ..
Women (especially those in need) give many men purpose.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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The girl is a HOR! The 40 year old man is her pimp.

She keeps going back to him (her pimp) to pay him so she has someone to support her.
 

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Well, out of all that, Bachelor was the only one who actually answered the question. Can't a guy get a straight answer around here, instead of a bunch of wanking?
 

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PrinceBeavis said:
Well, out of all that, Bachelor was the only one who actually answered the question. Can't a guy get a straight answer around here, instead of a bunch of wanking?
Beavis, may I remind you that perhaps 99% of ALL the Goddamned questions people have here are answered already not only in archived posts, but in the DJBible???

How about cutting us some slack, huh?? Just a little??!



Read the DJ Bible, people.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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