theSpeculator
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What does it mean when a girl look at you and smile? I've been getting a lot of this lately and it's very confusing. Please HELP!!!

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's winter, girls are hormonal. Also, you are a sexy beast.Originally posted by theSpeculator
What does it mean when a girl look at you and smile? I've been getting a lot of this lately and it's very confusing. Please HELP!!!![]()
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Originally posted by theSpeculator
What does it mean when a girl look at you and smile? I've been getting a lot of this lately and it's very confusing. Please HELP!!!![]()
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I wanted to see everyone's funny responses.Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
I got a better question. Why are you asking why they smile at you on here instead of taking advantage of the opportunities?
Originally posted by DJLegion
This happens to me too. Whenever I see a good looking girl I'll make eye contact and give them a smirck. Most girls will smile back. Man...there was this hot girl smiling back at me (TWICE) and I didn't talk to her...ok guys, bring out the stick.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.