theSpeculator
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What does it mean when a girl look at you and smile? I've been getting a lot of this lately and it's very confusing. Please HELP!!! 
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why do girls keep giving me smiles?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
California Love
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It's winter, girls are hormonal. Also, you are a sexy beast.Originally posted by theSpeculator
What does it mean when a girl look at you and smile? I've been getting a lot of this lately and it's very confusing. Please HELP!!!
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Buck Naked
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Maybe your fly is down!!!
englishcrap
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Maybe you got a long hair growing out of your nose
Originally posted by theSpeculator
What does it mean when a girl look at you and smile? I've been getting a lot of this lately and it's very confusing. Please HELP!!!
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Unfortunately until someone invents a mind reading device, there is only one way of finding out.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TillTheEndOfTime
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I got a better question. Why are you asking why they smile at you on here instead of taking advantage of the opportunities?
theSpeculator
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I wanted to see everyone's funny responses.
This happens to me too. Whenever I see a good looking girl I'll make eye contact and give them a smirck. Most girls will smile back. Man...there was this hot girl smiling back at me (TWICE) and I didn't talk to her...ok guys, bring out the stick.
englishcrap
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Same thing happened with me this afternoon. I made contact with this girl and she smiled. Real hot tottie but for some reason I just smiled back and didnt say a word
No worries our time will come again...
No worries our time will come again...
diablo
Master Don Juan
Oh. My. God.
Please, please, please. Not another "She smiled at me! What does this mean?!!?!?!?!?!? Master DJ's, your expert opinions are needed!!!" thread.
Closed.
Please, please, please. Not another "She smiled at me! What does this mean?!!?!?!?!?!? Master DJ's, your expert opinions are needed!!!" thread.
Closed.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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