theSpeculator
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What does it mean when a girl look at you and smile? I've been getting a lot of this lately and it's very confusing. Please HELP!!! 
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why do girls keep giving me smiles?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
California Love
Master Don Juan
It's winter, girls are hormonal. Also, you are a sexy beast.Originally posted by theSpeculator
What does it mean when a girl look at you and smile? I've been getting a lot of this lately and it's very confusing. Please HELP!!!
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Buck Naked
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Maybe your fly is down!!!
englishcrap
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Maybe you got a long hair growing out of your nose
Originally posted by theSpeculator
What does it mean when a girl look at you and smile? I've been getting a lot of this lately and it's very confusing. Please HELP!!!
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Unfortunately until someone invents a mind reading device, there is only one way of finding out.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TillTheEndOfTime
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I got a better question. Why are you asking why they smile at you on here instead of taking advantage of the opportunities?
theSpeculator
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I wanted to see everyone's funny responses.
This happens to me too. Whenever I see a good looking girl I'll make eye contact and give them a smirck. Most girls will smile back. Man...there was this hot girl smiling back at me (TWICE) and I didn't talk to her...ok guys, bring out the stick.
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
Same thing happened with me this afternoon. I made contact with this girl and she smiled. Real hot tottie but for some reason I just smiled back and didnt say a word
No worries our time will come again...
No worries our time will come again...
diablo
Master Don Juan
Oh. My. God.
Please, please, please. Not another "She smiled at me! What does this mean?!!?!?!?!?!? Master DJ's, your expert opinions are needed!!!" thread.
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Please, please, please. Not another "She smiled at me! What does this mean?!!?!?!?!?!? Master DJ's, your expert opinions are needed!!!" thread.
Closed.
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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