"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why do girls get so much fatter

Dhoulmagus

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Like I'm looking at girls hs vs now and they have gained so much weight since. How do they let this happen to them?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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They idolize miss piggy!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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One factor is because so many modern women simply have no culinary skills
and survive on very unhealthy diets consisting of fast foods and microwavable dinners.

The British chef Gordon Ramsay's tried to address this on his program the F-word, with his
focus on "Get women back in the kitchen"

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Women in the kitchen[edit]
A major component of series 1 was Ramsay's "Get Women Back in the Kitchen" campaign. In a self-administered survey, he found that three-quarters of women could not cook, with some 78% never cooking a regular evening dinner. Women found cooking to be a chore, whereas men found it to be an enjoyable activity. Ramsay claimed that women "know how to mix ****tails but can't cook to save their lives."[19]

Ramsay's findings were met with mixed reactions. While some of his contemporaries, like Nigella Lawson, previously stated similar opinions, other celebrity chefs, like Clarissa ****son Wright, felt Ramsay's proposition was "rubbish and about ten years out of date".[20] Wright felt that these comments undermined the increased enrollment of women at culinary schools across the United Kingdom. His intentions have been misunderstood by some who believe that he thinks women belong in the kitchen or should be doing the cooking for their husbands, whereas his real desire is to help women who want to be able to cook but lack the confidence or motivation
 

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Men create value, women preserve value. (from IllimitableMen). When you are a woman, and you discover that even your objective value is dropping, you still have betas giving you the same ammount of it, you don't need to preserve it.
 

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The same way most men do.
I don't understand how anyone in general can be fat and not look in the mirror and be like, "Ok...I f*cked up" then make it their highest priority to get healthy.

Always love it when people justify being overweight by saying they're just not superficial anymore and don't care. Right, and that's why you spend so much time and money on clothes, hair, makeup, jewerly, cars, posting on social media, etc. You're not trying to impress anyone at all with your image. Uh huh.

Nah, you're just a lazy a$$. Let's be real.
 

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1) they are proportionately smaller so if they eat a lot of excess calories it will build up quicker

2) hormones
 

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One factor is because so many modern women simply have no culinary skills
and survive on very unhealthy diets consisting of fast foods and microwavable dinners.

The British chef Gordon Ramsay's tried to address this on his program the F-word, with his
focus on "Get women back in the kitchen"

Copy and paste from wikipedia..
Women in the kitchen[edit]
A major component of series 1 was Ramsay's "Get Women Back in the Kitchen" campaign. In a self-administered survey, he found that three-quarters of women could not cook, with some 78% never cooking a regular evening dinner. Women found cooking to be a chore, whereas men found it to be an enjoyable activity. Ramsay claimed that women "know how to mix ****tails but can't cook to save their lives."[19]

Ramsay's findings were met with mixed reactions. While some of his contemporaries, like Nigella Lawson, previously stated similar opinions, other celebrity chefs, like Clarissa ****son Wright, felt Ramsay's proposition was "rubbish and about ten years out of date".[20] Wright felt that these comments undermined the increased enrollment of women at culinary schools across the United Kingdom. His intentions have been misunderstood by some who believe that he thinks women belong in the kitchen or should be doing the cooking for their husbands, whereas his real desire is to help women who want to be able to cook but lack the confidence or motivation
My ex is ballooning and keeps complaiining about it. I have told her to learn how to cook a freakin meal, but she refuses to because that's the man's job. In addition, most females I know don't know how to cook either lol. Most men I know had to learn how to cook because they started weight lifting like I did.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have told her to learn how to cook a freakin meal, but she refuses to because that's the man's job.
I can't tell if that's a joke or what.

In which western societies are men traditionally expected to do the cooking!?
 

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They get fat because they pick the most unhealthy habits like partying, drinking, smoking, eating for gratification or socialization instead of nutrtion and fuel.

They also have very low self control since they are not usually punished anytime they screw up something, they also can get sexual gratification whenever they want so dont need to control themselves, which happens also in the kitchen.

Hordes of desperate men still complimenting them while any guy without a decent shape has to work like a beast just to get an average girl.

If half of the men were to die at war and only half of the women could get attention even before marriage or sex they would all be running and jumping like men do now.
 

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There is this tatted up land whale at work that is probably 35. She has a kid and a fiance. Why on earth would anyone want her fat a ss?
 

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I appologize... but for me, a woman stops being a woman once she loses her figure. I'm just not attracted to gorillas!!! LOL!!! I mean, how am I supposed to get hard enough to do the deed? God has blessed them with something great, and they destroy it. Stupid fools!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My ex is ballooning and keeps complaiining about it. I have told her to learn how to cook a freakin meal, but she refuses to because that's the man's job. In addition, most females I know don't know how to cook either lol. Most men I know had to learn how to cook because they started weight lifting like I did.
The most fundamental rule is the "NC" rule, and that rule includes not thinking and talking about exes.

Btw, for some women, it's the man's job to breastfeed his babies too.

There is this tatted up land whale at work that is probably 35. She has a kid and a fiance. Why on earth would anyone want her fat a ss?
Haven't you ever come across fast a$$ men? Who do you think most of them settle for?

I appologize... but for me, a woman stops being a woman once she loses her figure. I'm just not attracted to gorillas!!! LOL!!! I mean, how am I supposed to get hard enough to do the deed? God has blessed them with something great, and they destroy it. Stupid fools!!!
We are here to have a good, healthy, and objective discussions and not encourage "sexism" and hatred towards women. When women are wrong, let's call them out on their B.S. When women are right, let's given them the credit. Fair enough?

How about you say "a person stops being a person when he/she loses his/her figure?" and apply your thinking to both men and women?
 

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Guys do the same thing and gain 25-80 lbs when they get into an LTR or Marriage. We have to maintain our end of the bargain as much as them.
 

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Sorry, I'm not into bestiality. LOL!!!
 

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Guys do the same thing and gain 25-80 lbs when they get into an LTR or Marriage. We have to maintain our end of the bargain as much as them.
True, but whenever I see couples they generally fall into the following three categories,

1) Both guy and girl are fit
2) Guy is fit, girl is a whale
3) They're both whales

I see #2 a lot, but rarely ever the other way around. Every time I see a fit dude holding hands with a whale I die a little bit on the inside. Why you gotta do this?
 

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True, but whenever I see couples they generally fall into the following three categories,

1) Both guy and girl are fit
2) Guy is fit, girl is a whale
3) They're both whales

I see #2 a lot, but rarely ever the other way around. Every time I see a fit dude holding hands with a whale I die a little bit on the inside. Why you gotta do this?
Because women don't give two **** about muscles.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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