"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why do girls **** block?

Ratisson

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this seems to happen to me a lot at clubs when im dancing with girls. Tonight i was dancing with a girl who was showing some IOI's and after about 5 or 6 minutes of grinding her her fat ugly friend comes in a pulls her away. Like wtf. Never in my life would i steal my buddy's opportunity of getting some, so why do selfish ugly b1tches come in and ruin all the fun. Its just something that i dont understand, i guess the ugly friend is jealous cuz nobody wants to bone her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Charm

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Jealousy and/or Protection of their Friends
 

Juan_Man

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Charm said:
Jealousy and/or Protection of their Friends
It's mainly due to jealousy. They wouldn't want protection if the guys were all up on them.
 

TheManlyMan

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noob, dance with the fat *****es first. disarm the ****blocking mechanism, then proceed.

and I say noob in the utmost of sarcasm; I've got no idea what your game is like.
 

dynamicallyidle

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Ratisson said:
this seems to happen to me a lot at clubs when im dancing with girls. Tonight i was dancing with a girl who was showing some IOI's and after about 5 or 6 minutes of grinding her her fat ugly friend comes in a pulls her away. Like wtf. Never in my life would i steal my buddy's opportunity of getting some, so why do selfish ugly b1tches come in and ruin all the fun. Its just something that i dont understand, i guess the ugly friend is jealous cuz nobody wants to bone her.
It's very possible that this girl with whom you were grinding summoned that fat friend to ****block you. Thing is, you were grinding her for 5 or 6 minutes? You should be out of there within 3 minutes man. Make a little chatter between songs, get her name, and tell her you'll see her again.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Poll

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That's why you have to bring a wing with you. Feed her a chicken wing and she'll be more than happy to let you take her friend home.
 
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