"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why do girls **** block?

Ratisson

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this seems to happen to me a lot at clubs when im dancing with girls. Tonight i was dancing with a girl who was showing some IOI's and after about 5 or 6 minutes of grinding her her fat ugly friend comes in a pulls her away. Like wtf. Never in my life would i steal my buddy's opportunity of getting some, so why do selfish ugly b1tches come in and ruin all the fun. Its just something that i dont understand, i guess the ugly friend is jealous cuz nobody wants to bone her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Charm

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Jealousy and/or Protection of their Friends
 

Juan_Man

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Charm said:
Jealousy and/or Protection of their Friends
It's mainly due to jealousy. They wouldn't want protection if the guys were all up on them.
 

TheManlyMan

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noob, dance with the fat *****es first. disarm the ****blocking mechanism, then proceed.

and I say noob in the utmost of sarcasm; I've got no idea what your game is like.
 

dynamicallyidle

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Ratisson said:
this seems to happen to me a lot at clubs when im dancing with girls. Tonight i was dancing with a girl who was showing some IOI's and after about 5 or 6 minutes of grinding her her fat ugly friend comes in a pulls her away. Like wtf. Never in my life would i steal my buddy's opportunity of getting some, so why do selfish ugly b1tches come in and ruin all the fun. Its just something that i dont understand, i guess the ugly friend is jealous cuz nobody wants to bone her.
It's very possible that this girl with whom you were grinding summoned that fat friend to ****block you. Thing is, you were grinding her for 5 or 6 minutes? You should be out of there within 3 minutes man. Make a little chatter between songs, get her name, and tell her you'll see her again.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That's why you have to bring a wing with you. Feed her a chicken wing and she'll be more than happy to let you take her friend home.
 
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