this seems to happen to me a lot at clubs when im dancing with girls. Tonight i was dancing with a girl who was showing some IOI's and after about 5 or 6 minutes of grinding her her fat ugly friend comes in a pulls her away. Like wtf. Never in my life would i steal my buddy's opportunity of getting some, so why do selfish ugly b1tches come in and ruin all the fun. Its just something that i dont understand, i guess the ugly friend is jealous cuz nobody wants to bone her.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why do girls **** block?
- Thread starter Ratisson
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It's mainly due to jealousy. They wouldn't want protection if the guys were all up on them.Charm said:Jealousy and/or Protection of their Friends
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noob, dance with the fat *****es first. disarm the ****blocking mechanism, then proceed.
and I say noob in the utmost of sarcasm; I've got no idea what your game is like.
and I say noob in the utmost of sarcasm; I've got no idea what your game is like.
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It's very possible that this girl with whom you were grinding summoned that fat friend to ****block you. Thing is, you were grinding her for 5 or 6 minutes? You should be out of there within 3 minutes man. Make a little chatter between songs, get her name, and tell her you'll see her again.Ratisson said:this seems to happen to me a lot at clubs when im dancing with girls. Tonight i was dancing with a girl who was showing some IOI's and after about 5 or 6 minutes of grinding her her fat ugly friend comes in a pulls her away. Like wtf. Never in my life would i steal my buddy's opportunity of getting some, so why do selfish ugly b1tches come in and ruin all the fun. Its just something that i dont understand, i guess the ugly friend is jealous cuz nobody wants to bone her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.